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About puppy1952

I am making the most of the South African Lifestyle and hope with my blog to share some of the adventures my husband and I are having in our retirement. We live at the Southern Tip of Africa in the small coastal town of Struisbaai. We enjoy travelling around South Africa and are bird and wildlife enthusiasts so are often in game reserves.

Share Your World 2 March 2020

This week Sparks asks some more light-hearted questions.  Here are my answers.

Can you bake a cake?   (credit for this question goes to Di, who asked it on her post 

https://pensitivity101.wordpress.com/2020/02/29/its-a-mystery/

recently.   Thanks Di! After last week’s SYW, we needed a little bit of sweet and light!)

Yes, I can bake a cake but I seldom do.  

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What’s one thing that can instantly make your day better?

Seeing the birds in my garden

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Lesser Double-collared Sunbird

When you were a kid, did you eat the crusts on your sandwich or not?

No, sandwiches with crusts go stale faster, don’t they?   I refused to eat my sandwiches if they had crusts on them.  I was an indulged child – for a while my mom would make me ‘rainbow’ sandwiches without crusts but I went off those too and refused to eat anything at school.  I would come home starving and have sardines on toast and a cup of cocoa.

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What’s something your family would be surprised to learn about you?

I enjoy alone time but that doesn’t mean that I don’t enjoy their company too!

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AND (of course)

GRATITUDE IS AN ATTITUDE!

Please feel free to share some gratitude from this past week (or month or year).  This is purely optional of course, but it does tend to uplift everyone (I happen to think) to read some happy and/or joyful thoughts or view some uplifting pictures.    Thank you if you do so! 

Six weeks ago a routine blood test showed that both the Earl and I had pre-diabetic levels of sugar.   The integrative doctor who we’re consulting tweaked our diet, put us on some supplements and recommended taking a tablespoon of apple cider vinegar in hot water every morning.  And it worked!  She tested our sugar levels yesterday and we’re both within normal range!  For this, I am hugely grateful.

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Anything is possible with The World Wide Web

I just love modern technology.   When my grandson was little he came home from school and said, “Gran, we should get the internet!”

“Why do we need the internet?” I asked

“Well,” said the bright young man, “if you want to find something out, all you need to do is type in, “www.whateveryouwant” and hey presto you get it!”

Well, when you have eager young minds in your home you have to keep up with the times so very shortly thereafter we got connected!  And he was right!   It changed our lives and we found that at last, we had arrived in the future.

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I think the internet, email, Whatsapp etc is especially important for the elderly.   They, of course, are the ones who are most resistant to change.  But once they get into it most agree that it makes a huge difference to their lives.   It keeps them in touch with their children and grandchildren, it helps them with their banking, those whose vision is fading can find audiobooks online, youtube is such fun, the list goes on.

For a few years, before I came to live in Struisbaai, I used to give individual lessons to retirees in the privacy of their own homes on their own computers.  Usually, these computers had been given to them by their children who wanted them to get into email etc but because of their busy lifestyles and lack of patience, they never got round to teaching Mom and Dad how to use the device.

Almost without exception, these older people would tell me – I hate this contraption, I wish my son had never brought it into my house but now he is pressuring me to learn to use it!

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I would spend the first lesson getting my learner to make friends with the awful thing.  Once they realised that they could not break the computer we started to have fun.  How rewarding it was to see the delight on their faces when they realised what they could do with this new magical device.

Now that I am a retiree myself I understand how frustrating it is when technology keeps changing and you have to keep updating yourself on the latest innovations.  We become so comfortable with the old and well-known.  But, I still love it.  I am still fascinated by the progress of things digital.  And I am so glad that I have this technology in my old age as it certainly prevents me from becoming bored.

The newest way in which I am using my computer is for exercise!   When I was younger, it didn’t matter what the weather was like, I would still go out, with my demanding dog, for an invigorating jog.  But now, I use any kind of weather as an excuse not to go for my daily walk.  It might be too hot, too cold, too wet or too windy!   Why, at my age, should I battle the irritating southeaster to get my daily workout.  Yet I miss it if I don’t so I googled indoor walking programmes and to my delight found a number of youtube videos that are most suitable and can be done with limited space.

My favourite is Walk At Home.   The workouts are based on four basic steps and come at various levels.  They are super easy to follow and give you a really good workout.  So now when the weather is good, I go for a walk in the fresh air and along our beautiful beach because I simply can’t give up that pleasure but my main form of exercise is right here in my own home.

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If you’re too shy to go to a gym or feel pressured by comparing yourself to others then online exercise is the answer.   You can go at your own pace, do it when you like and it’s free!    You can find yoga, pilates, Zumba and many other kinds of workouts too.   You have nothing to lose (besides a few kilogrammes if you need to) and much to gain (in health and well-being.)   Give it a go!

Share Your World 24 February 2020

I have been travelling again, folks, so it’s been a while since I’ve blogged.   I really enjoy Share Your World and usually try to do them even when away from home but this time it was not possible.

Here is my contribution to this week’s rather tricky questions from Sparks.

What do you think of best friends of the opposite sex?  Or to put it another way “Can men and women ever be platonic friends?  Doesn’t sex always get in the way?”  

I have male friends but I wouldn’t call them ‘best’ friends.  I really enjoy my female friends and find bonding with them way easier than bonding with men.  Most of my male friends are part of a couple or an ex-couple. I enjoy male company but I have never had a man as a ‘best’ friend.

I do think it is possible to have a best friend of the opposite sex without sex becoming an issue.

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What is the greatest struggle you’ve overcome?

I have had to deal with quite a few issues in my life and have my own way of dealing with them.  I won’t go into my greatest struggle because that is too personal to pursue on this blog.  But a trivial one that I took rather seriously for most of my youth was maintaining a healthy body mass.     It all started when I was quite young because I took people’s opinions too seriously.  Many people from family members, to parents’ friends and also my own peers would comment on my body shape.   On the other hand, had I not been made aware of my weight would I have become fat and unhealthy?   I really don’t know.  But weight, was always a struggle and an issue in my life.   And to be honest it still is.  It’s just that now I have it all under control.  I eat when I’m hungry and I exercise and I am no longer afraid of putting on the kilogrammes.  After all, I am an old lady so who cares!  I was always being told that I could do with losing a few kilos but in the past five years, it has been the opposite.  Instead, I hear, “You’re too thin, please eat!”  Really, I no longer care.  I am the way I am, so love me or leave me.

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What is the darkest thought you’ve ever had? What about the darkest thing you’ve done that you’ve never told anybody about? (obviously, you’ll be telling now if you choose to.  Telling might unburden you a little though.) 

I am not too sure how to answer this one!   I have been very tempted to do bodily harm to certain creeps that I’ve come across but never actually acted upon it.  The darkest thing I’ve done?  I really can’t think of anything.   But if I had done a deep, dark thing, would I confess it here?  I don’t think so.

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and one ‘fun’ one because I realize those others were pretty deep)

What is your least favourite food?

When I was a child, right up to the age of 18, I was a picky eater.  Food was a huge issue and I would be fearful of eating away from home in case I had to confront something I did not like.  I did not like pasta, rice, cooked vegetables or anything with a sauce or strange flavour.   When presented with a new dish I would ask my mother whether I would like it or not – and she knew my preferences so well that she would tell me.    It was only when I went away to college that I learned that food was not the enemy.  It was either eat what was put before you or starve!   Of course, this is also when the weight issues started and I gained 25 pounds in a year and only lost it in the last term of my third year when my peers pressured me to diet!   So my struggle with food became what not to eat rather what I used to like or dislike.    Now I don’t have a least favourite food.  I love trying new foods.  I enjoy eating what is on offer in foreign lands and like to eat what the locals eat.  But I avoid too many carbohydrates and try as much as possible to stick to a High Fat Low Carbohydrate type of diet concentrating on lots of vegetables.

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GRATITUDE

Share a thought, write a story or poem or share a meme about gratitude.  If you’d like to.  As with the other questions, this is optional.  

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Honorary Rangers’ Birding Trip Kruger National Park

The Earl and I along with three friends recently attended  The Satara Honorary Rangers’ Birding Weekend in the Kruger National Park.

We spent a total of nine days in The Park.   The weekend took place from 14 February to  16 February.

This time we did not take the caravan but flew to Nelspruit with SA Airlink and hired a Volkswagen Kombi.    We stayed in bungalows in Berg en Dal, Skukuza, Satara and Lower Sabie and were very impressed with the quality of the accommodation.

Gillian was the overall list keeper while Priscilla and I did the recording on our Bird Lasser app.

It was really amazing being on a trip with a group of people who were just as happy as we were to stop for every bird!   Kruger has had a lot of rain and plenty of flooding in the past few months so it was lush and the grass was tall.  Because of this, it was difficult to spot animals but the birdlife was excellent.

I usually blog each day when on a trip but this time I concentrated on bonding with our friends so did not get to the computer each evening.  So I am just going to share some of our best photographs with little comment.

We spent one night at Berg en Dal, two at Skukza, two over the weekend at Satara and finished with three nights at Lower Sabie.

It was Heather’s birthday on the second night and we celebrated with the most amazing meal at The Cattle Baron, Skukuza.

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Happy Birthday, Heather

The weekend was wonderfully organised by The Honorary Rangers of West Rand.   Our bird guide, Duncan, on board of our 20-seater open safari vehicle was awesome. He instantly recognised birds both by their visual appearance and their calls.

We had two catered meals for the weekend.  The first night was Valentine’s Day so we all dressed in Red and White.  On the second we had an African theme and had to dress for a Shabeen evening!  Priscilla was the queen of the evening and won a prize!

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The Shabeen Queen

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Earl in his Mandella Shirt – we got our name tags confused!

We also met up with Colin and Melodie, friends of Priscilla from Swaziland.   They were camping in the same rest camps and joined us each evening for meals.  On the last night, we had a farewell supper at Lower Sabie.

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Front – Gillian and Priscilla. Behind – Me, Heather, Melodie, Earl and Colin

Below I have posted some highlights from our drives both when we were on our own and from the open safari vehicle.

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Helmeted Guineafowl

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Carmine Bee-eater

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Groud Hornbill in a tree

IMG_0051 Diederick's Cuckoo 2020-02-17 4-24-01 PM

Diederick Cuckoo

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Fish Eagle

IMG_0071 Black-crowned Night-heron 2020-02-17 6-09-30 PM

Black-crowned Night Heron

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Sabota Lark

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Southern White-crowned Shrike

IMG_0108 White-winged Widowbird 2020-02-18 9-16-01 AM

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Burchell’s Zebra

IMG_0151 Pied Kingfisher 2020-02-18 4-20-34 PM

Pied Kingfisher

IMG_0156 Malachite Kingfisher 2020-02-18 4-22-07 PM

Malachite Kingfisher

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Chacma Baboon

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Red-billed Oxpecker grooming an impala

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Lions

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White-breasted Cormorant

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African Jacana

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African Black Crake

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Lake Panic

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Lazy Lion

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Green Pigeon

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You are not allowed outside your vehicle in Kruger National Park – Unless you’re with authorities so I could not resist posing on the signpost in the middle of my most favourite place in the world!-

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A curious immature Martial Eagle

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Bateleur

 

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Purple Roller

 

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Woolly-necked Stork doing a pirouette

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Sunrise

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Woodlands Kingfisher with a bug

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Necking giraffe

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Jumbo

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Swainson’s Spurfowl

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Spotted Hyaena

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Black-crowned Night Heron

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Water Thick-knee

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Warthog

 

 

 

Share Your World 3 February 2020

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World From Sparks

QUESTIONS:

When was the last time you tried something new?

I am constantly trying new things especially in the realm of healthy eating.  Five years ago I tried a new eating plan. LCHF is huge in this country and many people I know are following it or have tried and fallen off the wagon for one reason or another.  Most stick to it at least 75% of the time.  I cheat sometimes and perhaps that is why I have been diagnosed as prediabetic!   Well!  I was gob-smacked as I don’t drink sodas or even fruit juice, I don’t add sugar to my tea or coffee, I don’t even add milk!   I very seldom indulge in confectionaries or junk food and the only treat I usually allow myself is dark chocolate!  However, over the Christmas season, I ate the odd slice of Christmas Cake and minced fruit pies are my favourite.   Perhaps that’s why my sugar levels went up?  There are several things putting you at risk for diabetes type 2.  The only thing I am guilty of is being over 65!  Life is so unfair.    But I digress – what have I tried new recently?   Because of this new diagnosis as well as having high cholesterol levels I have decided to go on a semi-plant based diet.  I am still sticking to LCHF but with less red meat and dairy and sticking to the ‘good’ fats while having fewer of the ‘bad’.   I simply refuse to cut meat out altogether.   I am a South African Greek for heaven’s sake! Life is too short.   But I am adding more vegetables, eating less red meat and of course adding lots of fish which is easily available where I live.  (The Earl, by the way, is also prediabetic) Oh, and I’ve given up wine and coffee!   If my posts become grumpier you’ll know the reason why!

Yesterday, I bought a juicer/blender set.   Today we started on celery juice.   Celery juice is supposed to be the new miracle drug – it is good for everything.   So what’s the harm?   It may do nothing and it may bring down the cholesterol and sugar levels!  Cheers!

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The start of a new regime

If you were forced to eliminate every physical possession from your life with the exception of what could fit into a single backpack, what would you put in it?

A pair of Tomy takkies (sneakers/plimsolls), a pair of secret socks, two sets of underwear, a pair of black jeans, two short sleeve t-shirts, 2 long sleeve t-shirts, puffer jacket (I don’t have one but would get one ‘cos I can’t fit my other warm jacket in) toothbrush, toothpaste, shower gel, towel, sunscreen, moisturiser, lipstick,  Laptop computer, (my backpack has a special compartment for it), phone and camera + chargers in their respective compartments, passport and Flipfile of essential documents.

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What simple fact do you wish more people understood?

You are enough.

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What food item do you go through fastest in your house?  (credit to Sandmanjazz)

Now that I’ve started juicing, it’s going to be celery!

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GRATITUDE (Not mandatory for participation)

Feel free to share something that really makes you happy! 

Lots of things make me happy but the one I will share today is stated below.

It makes me happy having friends and/or family to stay.

One of my dearest friends, Hanny, came to stay last week.  She is the bravest, most positive person I know.  In spite of all the challenges including cancer that she faces daily, she is everybody’s friend, always kind, and generous to a fault.  We walked on the beach, swam in the sea and bonded with long chats into the night.

Today she was admitted to hospital and will undergo surgery for a hernia on Wednesday.   Hope it all goes well Han!

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Hanny  – always smiling

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Share Your World 27 January 2020

Here are my answers to  this week’s questions from Sparks

QUESTIONS:

1.  What age would you like to live to?

I don’t have a specific age in mind.  Of course, I would like to live for as long as possible but only if I am healthy right up to the last minute.   I plan to live each day to the full.  It doesn’t matter if I don’t fulfil every wish on my bucket list but I sure hope to have fun trying.

I realise that things can change in an instant and whatever happens I hope to be able to adapt and still live a fulfilling life in spite of any circumstances I find myself in.
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2.  What mystery do you wish you knew the answer to?

There are so many mysteries but I don’t dwell on them.  I would, however, like to know how socks lose their mates.

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3.  Does absolute power corrupt absolutely?

Yes!

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4.  What outdoor activity haven’t you tried, but would like to?

Parasailing!   I almost did once but my poor husband was so anxious about it I decided it would be unkind to put him through the stress of it.  That’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it!

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GRATITUDE SECTION (Not mandatory)

 

Please free free to share some gratitude from your world!

The gardener came yesterday and I am so grateful for all the hard work he did.

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Share Your World 20 January 2020

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

Where do you get your news?

I find the news boring and depressing.  In my country it’s the same old stuff repeated many times.  However, it is important to be informed so I sometimes watch “Morning Live” on SABC 2.   I prefer Sky or CNN  on DSTV. 

What ‘old person’ thing do you do?

I am not sure what an ‘old person’ thing is.  Is it doing things the old fashioned way?  Or is it the idiotic things old people do?

As far as the latter is concerned – I forget where I put things and waste a lot of time looking for such items and end up finding them exactly where they’re supposed to be!

The old fashioned way?   A friend, my age, and I were just discussing this yesterday.  She has a special way of making tea and does not fill the cup so there is room for stirring in the milk and sugar without spilling.   I always leave a little bit at the bottom of the cup – I was taught to do this as a child.  I think it was because we made tea with real tea leaves and not bags.  Although the tea was strained some would sneak through and settle at the bottom of the cup.   Sometimes an ancient aunt would ‘read’ your fortune in the tea leaves left behind.
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Other ‘granny things’ I do:

  • Keep tissues in my handbag (purse)
  • Say – you’ll understand when you’re older
  • Break into a sixties song if a memory prompts it.
  • I said I never would but I did a really old people thing – I went on a cruise!
  • Is it an old people thing to do crossword puzzles?   My gran did them and so do I. My grandkids don’t get it!

When was the coldest you’ve ever been?   The warmest?

The coldest was when I camped in a bell tent in the Kgalagadi Transfrontier Park in July 1996.  We could not blow up our matress so used it as a groundsheet and slept on the hard, frozen ground.  It was -4 degrees centigrade and even though my hubby and I were fully dressed in tracksuits and snuggled up together, we froze!

The hottest temperature I have experienced was over 50 degrees centigrade in Botswana.  You could not touch the car without wearing gloves.  We had a flat tyre, the Earl did not have gloves but fortunately, we were travelling with friends who did! Sleeping in a rooftop tent in these conditions was extremely uncomfortable!

Do you eat food that’s past its expiration date if it still smells and looks fine?

Yes, I do.  I have never had ill effects from doing so.

Finally:

If you’d like to, please share some gratitude from your life.   

2019 was an awesome year of travel for us and I am hugely grateful that we were able to see so many amazing places both in our own land and abroad.

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Caravanning in The Kruger National Park

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Our Cruise ship docked at Port Victoria, Seychelles

I am now grateful to have some time in our lovely little home here at the southern tip of Africa.

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I never grow tired of my harbour!

 

 

 

Share Your World 13 January 2020

I am a bit late this week but here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks.

What’s something your brain tries to make you do, which you have to will yourself NOT to do?  (could be a bad habit, a physical response to something…your interpretation is as good as mine! )

If I see chocolate my first reaction is to indulge!  I have to tell myself very firmly that if I eat it I will overindulge and feel sick.  It’s an addiction!

When someone finds out what you do, or where you are from, what question do they always ask you?

When they hear that I was a First Grade Teacher, the response is usually – “You must have a lot of patience. ”   Actually it has little to do with patience.  Your training prepares you for what you have to deal with when teaching small children.    It’s the most rewarding job in the world.

When I’m travelling abroad the question I am sometimes asked when I tell them I’m from South Africa  is, “Why aren’t you black?”  I am a teacher without the patience to explain genetics.

What’s something terrifying that we’ve all come to accept as a fact of life?

There are lots of terrifying facts of life.  Was there this much crime and abuse to women and children thirty years ago?

Corruption is a terrifying fact of life, not only in this country but all over the world.  What has happened to our leaders?  Why is there so much evil in the world?   Haven’t we learned from history that intolerance, war and dictatorship will only lead to our destruction?

Should governments make laws to protect people from harming themselves?  Could that even work?  (yes this one is deep, maybe too deep).

Governments should first put things in place to make sure that all their citizens can live a life that prevents them from wanting to harm themselves.  Proper education, housing, health care etc. instead of making laws that they have to police.

Some laws, of course, are necessary.  We need those speed limits, seat belt rules and car seats for babies.
Sadly many adults have no common sense so unless there is a rule in place they will go ahead and do something stupid that could harm them.   You can enforce a law that makes you not drink and drive but what about swimming where there are no lifeguards?  I don’t think so.  A warning will do.   If someone feels he is a strong enough swimmer he ought to have the freedom to choose where he swims.

 

Gratitude is an Attitude…

Please share your gratitude for this past week in the form of a photo, a quote or a thought.   🙂

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Share Your World – 6 January 2020

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World

QUESTIONS:

Is ‘hello” enough for you these days?  (credit to Rory – https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2019/12/29/is-hello-enough-for-you-these-days/ )

Yes, hello is enough.  One would expect a small place to be friendly but where I live it is not always so.  I quite often greet people I pass in the street.  Some greet back but others stare and walk on.  First prize is when you get more than the hello as happened to me once in this small town. We ended up chatting for 10 minutes and we had never met before!

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Do you believe in Murphy?   For those who aren’t familiar with Murphy, here’s a wee explanation:  Murphy’s law is an adage or epigram that is typically stated as: “Anything that can go wrong will go wrong”.

Not really although I often use the term Murphy’s Law when things go wrong.

The fact is that when lots of things can go wrong, they don’t!  So Murphy chooses his time and place to cause chaos.

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Does evil come from within?  If so, why?

I honestly believe that evil is an external force in the ether.  There are two forces at play – good and evil.  They are fighting against each other. Where there is good, there is also evil.  We need to choose which side we’re on.

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Are intelligent people more or less happy than others?   What defines intelligence?

I don’t think intelligence makes the least bit of difference to people’s happiness. I know many unhappy intelligent people.  Perhaps they’re unhappy because they overthink things and analyse a situation and the negative side influences their thinking more than the positive side.  I also know a great many unhappy stupid people.  Sadly there’s no cure for stupid. You just have to be tolerant of them.   Just as many stupid people are blissfully happy.   My mother always told me ignorance is bliss.

What defines intelligence?  According to Howard Gardner there are eight types of intelligence

A few special people will be gifted in all eight.  I am equally mediocre in about three of them – verbal/linguistic, naturalistic and interpersonal.

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Gratitude Section

Please feel free to share a quote, photo or thought about gratitude.

I could go on and on about this one because I have just returned from an awesome two-month long trip.  What’s not to be grateful for.

During our travels, we communed with nature, bonded with family, ate extravagantly, re-united with friends we hadn’t seen in ages and maintained good health.  Then we finally returned to our awesome home in the most beautiful part of the Western Cape.

Yes – I am grateful. Life is Good.

 

Really You Challenge

I am taking part in this challenge from A Guy called Bloke

How much Television [alternatively, films through the PC/DVD’s or Streamed TV] do you watch per week, month or year?

I’m not sure I can put an accurate number to this question.  I watch television/Netflix almost every evening but for how long varies.  I seldom watch during the day.  At the moment though, I am staying with my kids and the TV is on all day long whether or not anybody is watching.  The volume is only turned up when someone is watching.  Averaging things out I would say two and a half to three hours per day.

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How do you keep yourself entertained?

I have no problem keeping myself entertained.  There is always something to do.   I don’t follow a strict routine now that I am retired but I do try to do all the necessary household and gardening chores early in the day.

I admit it.  I spend a lot of time on my computer.  My journal is always needing updating, I edit my photographs – I never leave home without my camera so there is a lot of editing that needs to be done – and of course, I Blog.

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How do you prevent yourself from becoming bored and do you suffer from boredom a lot?

When we were still looking after the family, bored did not have a place in my vocabulary.  I am still not bored.  Life is fun and exciting and there is always something to do even if it is only a Sudoku or Crossword puzzle. I am lucky enough to travel frequently and when we are at home base we explore our local area by taking spur of the moment days out.

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