Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

QUESTIONS.   

(the last two are courtesy of Teresa of The Haunted Wordsmith)

Is it wrong to sell store-bought pastries at a bake sale?

I don’t think so.  The point of a bake sale is to raise funds for something.  Providing something to sell is contributing to a good cause.   Personally, I would buy something ‘home-made’ and then contribute that to the bake sale.

Have you ever interacted with the police?

I have indeed!  I was the passenger in my friend’s car when two cops pulled us over and one became very angry and abusive about some trumped-up charge.  My poor friend shrank and looked terrified. The big burly officer yelled at her – “What do you think you’re doing? You crossed over a double white line!”  (She was simply trying to change lanes so she could turn left.)  He displayed enormous anger while his partner stood at his elbow looking embarrassed but did not utter a word.

I piped up – “If she’s done something wrong – write her a ticket and quit the yelling!”

He then yelled at me “I’m not talking to you – I’m talking to the driver – You shut up!”

Well, that was a red rag to a charging bull.   I pulled out my phone and said – Where is your name badge?- What is your name?  I am going to report you.  Give me the number to ring!

He yelled back – You shouldn’t have pulled over here on this barrier – Go and park over there!   He pointed to an impossible place.

Just drive – I said to my friend – don’t pull over again.  She did and I looked to see if the policemen followed but they didn’t.   I then googled the number to ring and reported the abuse.  Unfortunately, he wasn’t wearing his name tag but I told the person on the other end of the line exactly where the incident occurred.  And that was the end of it.  We were never contacted again about the outcome.  Why the cop was so angry, I have no idea.   He probably thought I’d taken a photo of him with my phone – I didn’t think of that at the time – and so he didn’t follow us. My personal opinion as this cop just felt like scaring two old ladies for a bit of fun!   It might have been fun for him but it wasn’t for us.

What will you remember most about this past year (this question will show up again, in late December, just FYI)

I will remember the stunning cruise we took in March/April as a big highlight of the year.

Is it better to have fungus on your toes, your tongue, or your pizza?

Mushrooms are a fungus so definitely on my pizza!

What is one slang word that makes your skin crawl?

I can’t think of one.  I actually quite like slang.  It can make one’s speech more interesting.   Words fascinate me and a living language will change.  What is slang today, might become a dictionary word tomorrow.

Some years ago the word ‘larney’ crept into South African slang.  It means ‘posh’.  I didn’t like it at first but now I use it regularly.   It can also be used to name a posh or rich person.   Eg  “That larney lives in larney house and drives a larney car.”

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

Are you more a thinker or a doer?    (credit to Cyranny of Cyranny’s Cove for this one)

I would say that I am more of a doer than a thinker.  I tend to act before I think about all the options. Usually, it all works out well because I am quite intuitive too.  But there are times when I should have thought it through first.   For example, I tend to rush to the aid of someone without thought of my own safety which results in my becoming hurt too so I can’t help that person anyway!

Why is beauty associated with mortality?

Is it?  Although I guess when one sees a dead loved one they do look as if they’re at peace.  Is that a kind of beauty?

If everyone spoke their mind (told the literal truth), would this world be a better place?

Probably not. Sometimes being too truthful can hurt feelings.   However, I like it when people talk straight.  If we could find a balance between telling the absolute truth and breaking it to others gently the world would be a better place.

Can religious beliefs affect scientific thinking?

When I was a child I had blind faith but now scientific thinking has affected my religious beliefs.   For example, I have no trouble blending my belief in both creation and evolution.   In my opinion, God caused evolution. But if the creationists want to believe the ancient story it does nobody any harm.  Scientists will always think ahead.   If they didn’t we would never have found out that the world is a sphere and that ships would not fall off the end of the earth.  After 350 years the Vatican finally admitted that Galileo was right about the earth moving around the sun.  It doesn’t do poor Galileo any good now but the persecution at the time didn’t move him to change his theory.

Attitude of Gratitude

If you’d like to, share some gratitude in photo, written form or song. 

My grandson, Josh, and I took a wonderful walk along Struisbaai Beach on the weekend.  I’d been in the hospital for five days so I had a fresh appreciation of being able to enjoy the fresh air and I expressed to him how much I loved living here.   He wanted to know why and if I could back to being thirty would I choose to live here. My answer was No – I wouldn’t change anything about my past life.  There was a season for everything.  I’d loved raising my children and helping his mom raise him and his brother.  My life certainly hadn’t turned out the way I’d thought it would but when we were thrown a curveball we made choices on how to deal with it.  All of it made us stronger and happier – so no regrets – just grateful for the awesome life I’ve had and am still having.

Here are some photos that make me so grateful to live where I do.

Struisbaai’s picturesque harbour

A dikkop on my driveway

Not scared at all – a Sealy visitor to our beach

Two black oyster-catchers and a kelp gull enjoying the rock pools

A Bokmakierie seen on one of my walks

Our stunning beach

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

Do you think there is such a thing as a ‘gendered’ brain? 

Yes I do.  Males and Females are different and I believe our brains are wired differently too.    This must be remembered when teaching a class of both male and female learners.   I taught at a school where First and Second Grade children (Aged 7 and 8) were taught in separate gender classes.  In these early years it is beneficial to concentrate on the learning styles of their gender.   Studies have shown that boys and girls need input from each other in the later grades so they are integrated from the third grade on.

What is the silliest fear you have? 

In this country a fear of wild animals and criminals are not considered ‘silly fears’ – but those are the two things I fear most.  I don’t roam around in game reserves where wild predators abound and I avoid high crime areas where gangsters might attack me.  Actually I’d rather take my chances with the wild animals!

I do have slight phobias about modes of transport that I am not in control of – Air and Sea travel are the ones that concern me the most.  The chances that something might befall me while engaging in these modes of transport are very slim so I push these fears right to the back of my mind.  Once I’m on the plane or ship – I’m just fine.   It’s the build up to the journey that unreasonably scares me.  Anyway the point I’m trying to make is that I’m not going to let a silly fear prevent me from ultimately having fun!

The Earl has no such fears – it’s border posts and security checks that get him into a state of angst.

Out of your family members, who are you closest to?

The person who is Number One in my life is my husband.   Now that we’re retired we are together 24/7 and it’s just as well that we get on well together. Of course we sometimes annoy each other but neither of us could live without the other.  We plan to die on the same day.

Even though I don’t see many members of my family often enough, I do feel close the them – I’m closely bonded to my children and grandchildren.  I think about my siblings every day and I’m always interested and concerned about the lives of my aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews and their offspring.   I am eternally grateful to The Internet and Social Media for making it easy to keep up!

What is something you’ll NEVER do again?

I asked my husband what he would never do again, and without skipping a beat he replied, “Make babies!”

So that’s a relief because I certainly won’t be giving birth to any!

Other than that I’m still able to do just about everything else I’ve always done.  I no longer teach but I can’t say I’ll never do it again because anything is possible.

I once ate a Mopani Worm – Maybe I won’t do that again.

If you’d like, please share a photo or a comment about something good that’s happened recently!  Thanks! 

Two of my aloes burst into flower!