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JusJoJan Despair 18 January 2024

Despair is the prompt word for JusJoJan today. Thank you Carol Anne for your suggestion.

The dictionary defines despair as ‘complete loss or absence of hope.’ Now, I am a very optimistic and positive person and yet I use that word carelessly quite often, and when one does that it takes the true meaning away. 

So many people are in despair, unable to do anything about their circumstances and my heart goes out to them. Think of all the war-torn countries in our world and how desperate those people must be. Here in South Africa, there are too many people living in poverty with little hope of dragging themselves out of it. But here I am, full of privilege using that word so lightly.

I despair of getting my husband to remember to put on his hearing aids without being prompted. Really? Just nag and it will be done! 

I am a fixer! I like to think that I can make everything right, You have a problem? I can fix it. But when my ‘fix’ doesn’t work for you, I despair! I need to learn to let people solve their own problems! After all, they’re just tiny ones compared to the desperate situations others find themselves in.

I can’t solve the world’s problems. I can’t fight in wars. I can’t end world hunger. But I can provide support in small ways in my own world where people are in despair – or think they are!

What amazed me is how some very privileged people I know seem to despair quite often and are weighed down with stress and worry while others who are truly in dire circumstances put on a brave face, get on with it, and don’t lose hope at all. They meet the challenges head-on, make a plan, and deal with their problems as best they can. It’s people like that who I like to support and give as much assistance to as I am able. 

In a small way, we can all make the world a better place if we just show kindness and help each other instead of being destructive with words and actions. 

What I really despair about is the powers that be – not only in my own country but in most others too. It seems that power is more destructive than anything else. It seems to me that too many governments are corrupt to the core. What does that say about us, the voters? Why are we allowing ourselves to be ruled by criminals and madmen? 

Elections are looming in 64 countries around the world. That means 49% of the world’s population will be going to the polls. Will they make a difference and end world despair?

JustJoJan and One Liner Wednesday – Grateful

Today’s JusJoJan prompt is doubling with One-Liner Wednesday. The word to use is Grateful.

Every day is a gift. One more time I can enjoy a sunrise, hear the birds singing in my garden, and have the next-door cats come in for a cuddle. It’s another day to begin a new adventure, to talk to loved ones and create something special even if it is only the evening meal.

I am grateful that today I got to see the excitement on a six-year-olds face as she started Grade 1 on this first day of the school year. When we arrived to collect her she ran straight out the door to greet us. Mom followed all giggles saying she’d been up since dawn! My heart was full!

Proudly dressed in her new school uniform and more than ready for her first day of formal education!

JusJoJan24 – Craft – Monday 15 January 2024

Today’s prompt, the word ‘craft’, for JusJoJan comes from Astrid. 

Many images jumped into my mind when I read what today’s prompt was. Perhaps it’s because we are planning a trip that visions of planes and ships and craft of that sort appeared in my head.

Normally, I would think first of craft as something to do with your hands. I have always had a problem with fine motor skills. Writing, drawing, sewing, etc were always a challenge. And yet I enjoyed them all – except for drawing! I struggled in sewing classes at school – yes in the olden days sewing was a compulsory subject in primary school. I also battled to learn to knit. But those classes took the place of OT and were good for children with motor skill problems and once I had mastered them, I thoroughly enjoyed them. Another activity I struggled to learn as a child but then became addicted to was French Knitting – definitely good for fine motor coordination!

The thing with a craft is that you can always learn how to do one if you put your mind to it. I do have a creative mind but my creativity does not stretch to fine art. So as an outlet knitting, crochet, and sewing have been my go-to crafts. There is something very satisfying about creating something with your own hands and as long as there are clear instructions I seem to be able to manage to create something by carefully following the directions. As a young mother, I still had problems with dressmaking but got a friend to teach me then attended some classes and became quite proficient, and for years I made most of my and my daughters’ clothes. (I no longer sew and have given my sewing machine and over-locker to a young designer who really needed them for her craft. ) I still go through phases of knitting and crochet. 

I crocheted a set of placemats like this for my daughter

Now to the other craft. The Earl had a fishing craft for many years and loved being out at sea catching fish. He no longer has a craft of his own but he still likes to board his friends’ boats and always enjoys a short excursion out to sea. Longer fishing trips are no longer an option for him. Luckily living where we do the fishing spots are fairly close to the harbour and you need not go out for very long if you choose not to.

Because of his love of the sea, the kind of craft he loves to travel on is a cruise ship. At first, I was not so keen to take a long cruise on the deep wide ocean as visions of the Titanic Disaster danced in my head. But after a month-long cruise on the good ship, Costa Victoria in 2019, I was hooked! What an awesome way to travel. I am so pleased we did this before the pandemic prevented us from booking another one!

A magnificent craft – The Costa Victoria

As I said in my opening paragraph we are planning another trip, and yes it will be another cruise but not for as long as the Costa Victoria. The cruising bug has bitten our darling daughter and she has persuaded us to join a group of six on a nine-day cruise in the Mediterranean. Yes – we certainly are keen to board this craft although nothing has been booked as yet. We will of course also have to board an aircraft to get there and our plan is to start in the UK so we can visit friends and family there then after a few days, we will fly to Istanbul where the cruise begins and ends, and then fly home from there.

JusJoJan 24 – Writing – Sunday 14 January 2024

The JusJoJan prompt for today comes from Joanne Thank you Diane for this word as it is one very close to my heart,

When I was growing up and in primary school, handwriting was considered a very important skill and our teachers insisted upon correct pencil grip, correct letter formation, and above all neatness. This was in the days before children with difficulties were sent for occupational therapy, remedial tuition, and psychological counselling. While I was learning my letters, I now realise, I needed all three! 

First, we learned to print in the ball and stick fashion. In Standard One/Grade Three we started on cursive. By then I had mastered the difficult skill of printing and was really keen to get to cursive which I found a tad easier to learn. According to my very strict but excellent teacher, my handwriting was very neat. But it was also very slow! I spent so much time concentrating on neatness that speed fell by the wayside. Once I reached the higher grades speed became important so guess what -neatness fell by the wayside simply so that I could keep up! 

From then on my teachers despaired of ever getting me to write neatly and accurately. I could spell but I made ‘careless’ mistakes – and still do!  I had to make a choice, write neatly and win the teacher’s praise for pristine penmanship or get the work done in the required time and avoid being scolded for tardiness. Time won! These days children with learning issues are given extra time to complete – I had no such privilege. How I envied those children who managed to complete tasks with awesome handwriting and no errors.

I liked writing – not handwriting but writing and I still do. When it came to writing compositions I just needed so much more time so usually did not write quite as much as I would have liked to.

When I was teaching in the seventies and eighties, handwriting was still an important subject in the curriculum. Now that I was the teacher I was a little more sympathetic toward those who struggled with this skill. My training had prepared me how to help those with fine motor coordination problems and I never penalised a child for untidy work. Some of my colleagues were still strict about neatness but having had problems myself as a child I was more interested in what the child wrote rather than how he wrote it. 

However, I was strict about pencil grip and correct letter formation. In other words, I encouraged my learners to start the letter correctly, to start next to the margin, and to try to keep between the lines. The reason for this is that the physical act of writing is good for the brain. 

Learning to physically write is still important because writing uses more complex motor and cognitive skills than is required to use a keyboard. Knowing how to write also helps with reading fluency as writing activates the visual perception of letters. There are many other benefits to having good handwriting but I won’t bore my readers with those now.

I learned to type when I was in Standard 7/Grade 9 and it changed my life! It is the best thing I ever learned at school, besides reading, because although I did not need to type during my early career it was a skill I could use on a computer which from the nineties on became a huge part of both school admin and creating teaching aids. I welcomed the digital age with open arms as it made everything a thousand times better for me. Doing admin for school records was a nightmare – no mistakes were allowed at all – one mistake and you had to begin again! It took me five times longer than my more accurate colleagues. I was one of the first on my staff to welcome a computerised system while many of the older teachers were resistant to the changes!

Yes – I love technology and it is a great tool for those who struggle to physically write. Screens are being used as a learning tool in school. I used them myself and found them a tremendous aid as they capture the attention of children and enable you to do so much more in the classroom. But handwriting is still important and we must still teach children to read and write. 

The pencil will one day become obsolete as did stone tablets and quill pens. But it’s not time to throw the baby out with the bath water yet!

Just Jot It January and Stream of Consciousness 13 January 2024

Today Stream of Consciousness Saturday is combined with Just Jot It January and the prompt is Close-up or Close Up.

I enjoy taking photographs but I am really of the aim and shoot variety. Reasonable memory shots are usually the result of my efforts and I have an archive full of photographs from many years of recording just about anything since digital photography became a thing.

I received my first digital camera on my fiftieth birthday – twenty-one years ago. I guess it’s time my photography skills came of age! That little camera had a three times optical zoom and cost R7 000 if I remember correctly. At the time I owned a video camera which was my pride and joy but it was not digital. My camera did not have a video function so I still had to use both of them. 

My next digital camera came a few years later and I paid R 6 000 for a 12x optical zoom camera – Wow – was I thrilled with that. I could not believe that a camera so superior to my previous one cost R1000 less. And it had a video function so the video camera went into a junk cupboard and stayed there for many years before giving it away for nothing! 

But now to the point of the prompt – close-up. Well with my new digital camera, I discovered that close-ups were quite easy and great fun too. As technology improved I moved along with it by purchasing the newest in digital zoom cameras until at last I got one with a 65x optical zoom. My brand of choice was and still is Canon, and their PowerShot range is superb.  Each time I bought a new camera the price was less than the time before until the latest one.  Cameras now cost twice as much as what I paid before the one I have now – a Canon PowerShot SX70HS. I have to take great care of this one because it will cost too much to replace. My previous cameras have all been given to members of my family who coveted them!

Camera technology today is amazing. Who would have imagined twenty years ago that a phone would double as a camera? In fact, the cell phone is even more than that, and what a difference that has made to modern life!

Let me now close up this post with a few favourite close-up photographs. The Earl is in fact the best close-up photographer so I have also chosen from his folder too. He uses a Panasonic Lumex 60X with 60x optical zoom.

Giraffeclose-up by The Earl
Lion close-up by The Earl
Zebra close-up by me.

JusJoJan – Pastime Tuesday 9 January 2024

The prompt word for today’s JusJoJan is ‘Pastime“ and it comes from Di at pensitivity101

A pastime is something you do that is enjoyable and helps to pass the time pleasantly. This I guess is opposed to something we do that is necessary for earning a living, duty, or survival. We actually spend more time doing things we have to do rather than doing something for pleasure but that doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy those tasks that are so essential in our everyday lives. 

To live we have to eat and to eat somebody has to cook. Isn’t it strange that when you have to do something you tend to enjoy it less? When it is a chore that simply has to be done we tend to dislike it. Now that the pressure is off, cooking has become more of a pastime than a chore. Admittedly I am lucky enough to have a husband who also enjoys cooking and now that we’re retired we argue about who is going to have the pleasure of cooking the evening meal! 

“Don’t worry, Darling.” I’ll say, ”I’ll cook tonight.” 

“Oh no, you won’t. I’m sure it’s my turn and I really want to try this new recipe!” will come the reply.

Isn’t life tough!

Then on the other hand pastimes that gave pleasure no longer do because of the limitations of old age. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. One remembers enjoying a long hike up a mountain but despite the enthusiasm, keeping up with the younger members of the family is a challenge and not quite as enjoyable as ten years ago! Hubby still thinks he can go out ski-boat fishing, a lifetime passion but although he goes from time to time the recovery time afterward makes it less enjoyable.

The trick, now, is to find a pastime that is enjoyable and does not strain the old body. Or rather to still do those things from the past at a slower pace! 

These days my favourite pastimes are, learning Italian on Duo Lingo, blogging, reading, listening to podcasts, and gentle exercise like walking and yoga. I also like playing word and number games on my phone. Hubby says it’s a total waste of time but I believe such games keep the brain functioning! 

I find that the wonderful thing about being retired is that there is nothing that needs to be done urgently. There is no rush so everything one does whether it is an essential task or a hobby is a pleasure. Things I used to dislike doing when the pressure was on is no longer a hassle. I like cleaning my house. I like pottering in the garden – although I won’t do anything back-breaking – I have a gardener for that. I like going out to do the shopping in an unrushed manner. Thinking back to the days of having a full-time career, running a household, taking care of my husband and kids, and still finding time for socialising, exercise, and hobbies, I wonder how I coped. But of course I did and I loved my life. I certainly love it still and am grateful for those active, busy days but there’s no wish to go back as my relaxed lifestyle now is just as enjoyable.

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1.

The above verse is basically saying that everything is temporary and things are constantly changing, so we should therefore, move with the times, adapt and adjust to every situation, live one moment at a time, and choose to be happy doing what needs to be done as well as the chosen, amusing pastimes.

JusJoJan – Curious 7 January 2024

Today’s prompt word for JusJoJan is ‘Curious’

We have two very curious cats that visit us daily. They are interested in absolutely everything around them. If we have the gardener here they won’t leave him alone. They sniff at his tools and inspect the area he is weeding. Recently we had solar panels installed and the cats were all around the technicians examining their work and making sure they were doing a good job. The workers were incredibly patient with the felines and managed not to trip over them – they do like to get in the way and then object if you accidentally step on them! These cats are such happy little creatures and I’m sure it’s because they are curious about the world they live in and find great joy in what they find even if it’s just some affection from the people they are pestering with their inquisitiveness.

Because of the idiom – Curiosity killed the cat – it comes across that curiosity is a bad thing. 

But of course, nothing can be further from the truth. I suppose curiosity can get one into trouble but imagine if one ignored one’s instinct to find out about things that interested one. No new discoveries would be made. We would not have the wheel. Man would not have landed on the moon. The telephone would not have been invented. We would not have computers, the internet, and all the other wonderful modern technology that both complicates and simplifies our lives!

In my opinion, people who are not curious are boring and usually miserable too. When a person is curious, they explore their world and are filled with awe when they discover what is out there. When we experience awe we also experience clear thinking, good health, and relate better to other people. 

So get out there and be curious. 

JusJoJan – Captivating 4 January 2024

Today’s prompt for JusJoJan is captivating.

The word captivating means ‘capable of attracting and holding interest’. Other similar words that come to mind are enchanting, fascinating and engaging. How wonderful it is when we find something or someone captivating. I love this word as it conjures up images of curiosity, fun and delight.

What do I find captivating? The first thing that comes to mind – birds. They are such fascinating little creatures. I can sit at the window facing my garden and watch them for hours. If the sprinkler is on it is fun to watch the different groups coming and going, The sugarbirds, weavers, sparrows and witogies are the most common but others often join it too. Sometimes there will be a mix of species but usually, they take turns. When one decides to leave the scene the others follow and then they return in waves. 

I love to watch them at the birdbath too. The same seems to happen here with the different species taking turns. There is of course always the bully who chases his subordinates away.  Hereunder is a selection of visitors on sprinkler day. Click on each to enlarge.

JusJoJan 2024 #2 Gregorian

Here I go with the second day of JusJoJan. Thank you Willow for today’s prompt – Gregorian.

When I hear the word Gregorian I think of the chanting of monks as they worship at chapel. But it is not only Christian monks who chant prayers or hymns. In almost every religion it seems that the worshippers will chant at some stage or another. Deep down I understand this because the sound is beautiful and perhaps that is the point. It evokes a feeling of peace and of wonder. Perhaps, too, it helps the worshipper to concentrate on what he is saying. Children seem to learn when they chant, rap, sing or recite in rhyme. Does chanting do something to our brain waves? I taught at a school where we were encouraged to use music, singing, chanting and movement in our lessons. It seems that such activities calm children and give them a sense of well-being so that the learning process is stimulated. I certainly found that when my small learners became restless an action song would do wonders to get them back on track.

Another thought evoked from the word Gregorian was that of our modern-day calendar. It has only been used since October 1582 and some days in some months had to be lost when it first replaced the Julian calendar which was similar but not as accurate. One wonders what kind of disruption this caused especially when it came to celebrating birthdays. Imagine being told – sorry your birthday is not on the calendar this year! Well, of course, this happens to those born on the 29 February as they only get their actual birthdate every four years! But at least they know this in advance.

So thank you Pope Gregory XIII – we have a calendar that is used in most parts of the world and is pretty accurate as far the solar year is concerned because at the turn of a century, you don’t have a leap year unless the year is divisible by 400. Thus,1700, 1800, and 1900 were not leap years but 1600 and 2000 were.