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The Heart Behind The Two Oceans Tournament

The Two Oceans Marlin Tournament isn’t only about the thrill of the chase out on the water — it’s equally about the magic that unfolds when the weary and hungry anglers stumble into the Suidpunt Diepsesshengleklub’s clubhouse. Here, they find a calm haven where camaraderie, laughter, and shared stories of the one that got away come together as they raise a glass to each other.
Grant, our unflappable Tournament Manager, keeps every detail running smoothly, ensuring that the nights are as much fun as the daytime angling. And then there’s Andrew, whose quick wit and effortless rapport turn every gathering into a fun occasion. Under his guidance, spirits stay high, jokes fly, and the anglers find themselves revived.

But at the centre of it all is Marinda. Her catering skills have become legendary. After gruelling days at sea, hungry anglers return to feasts that are not only plentiful but crafted with care. The flavours are comforting and the portions satisfying. Her loyal helpers return year after year and provide service with pride, consistency, and good humour.

An Early Photo of Marinda and her Team

Every year, without fail, Marinda, manageress of Suidpunt Diepseehengelkub, and her staff pour themselves fully into the spirit of the Two Oceans Marlin Tournament.  Whether the theme calls for pirates, Valentine’s romance, tropical flair, or something entirely unexpected, they transform the club into a vibrant world of colour, décor, and atmosphere. Their creativity becomes part of the tournament’s identity — an experience anglers look forward to almost as much as the fishing itself.

What makes this team truly unforgettable goes far beyond the décor. The young women behind the bar greet every competitor with warmth, patience, and professionalism, even when the queues get long and the demands get high. In spite of the pressure, their smiles never falter as they calmly handle the needs of each thirsty angler.

The meals are delicious, the company is warm, and the atmosphere is merry. Auctions spark friendly rivalry, and pirates might even make an appearance. But beware – if you have misbehaved or done something dumb, you will have to sniff some snuff or take a strafdop! After all, my hearties, discipline must be maintained to run a tight ship!

There is another quiet anchor in the background of the Suidpunt Diepsee Hengelklub. Dahlene is the club’s bookkeeper, and she is dedicated to doing her bit for TOMT. She is the custodian of accuracy and order. Every entry, every set of accounts, every financial detail that keeps the club functioning smoothly passes through her hands. Her records are immaculate, and she ensures that nothing is out of place.

Dahlene

Both she and Marinda have an encyclopaedic grasp of the event’s inner workings. They organise sponsorship, deal with the applications and know which anglers are competing, who skippers which boat along with other small details that others might forget. They are both deeply committed to the club, and the competition and competitors and organisers know they can rely on their calm professionalism.

These evenings are where stories are shared, friendships deepen, and the true heart of the tournament shines. Thanks to all involved for making it all so much fun!

2013 -A Legendary Year 0f The Two Oceans Marlin Tournament

Some years are simply ordinary, with good and bad things happening, and nothing spectacular occurs to have you rushing to write home about. But 2013 was not one of those years for the anglers of The Seventh Two Oceans Marlin Tournament. This one was a truly bumper year when Thirty-eight boats took part and no fewer than thirty-nine malin were caught and released.
I would love to share all the stories of those who wrestled with the mighty giants of the ocean, but I was not involved in TOMT in those early days. However, James Taylor, a crew member of Gwaza skippered by Andrew van Zyl, has sent me the tale of how Gwaza won the day! This story also appeared in Ski-boat magazine that year.

Gwaza

Gwaza’s formula for effective marlin catching James Taylor shares the formula: Gentle ladies and generally rather vrot fisher-men.  As a loyal member of the crew of the good boat Gwaza, I am honoured to address you on this auspicious occasion.
On Gwaza, the 1st day was one of distraction, confusion and conflict. The yellowtail were biting on the Alphard Banks. Our skipper was distracted by this and got the radio channels wrong. As a result, the crew was unaware that the circling boats were catching and releasing the first ten marlin of the tournament. The conflict arose on the return journey when the crew reminded the skipper that they had parted with their hard-earned entry fee in order to participate in a marlin tournament, not to catch yellowtail. 
On the 2nd day, the unimaginable happened. After being worked on mercilessly by the crew in the clubhouse the night before, the skipper eventually allowed marlin lures to be put out.  On arriving back in the harbour at the end of the day, 2 light blue flags were flying from the makeshift mast. Completely against the run of play and all expectations (particularly those of the crew), the good boat Gwaza had been struck by extreme good fortune, catching and releasing 2 marlin (50% of the fish caught on the 2nd day).

Seemingly, fishermen do not believe in good fortune, convinced that those who make successful catches have superior knowledge or tackle – or both. In the clubhouse, the crew were plied with drinks and interrogated for the secrets of Gwaza’s success. In order to keep the free drinks flowing, they frantically tried to remember where they had been and what lures they had been using.
On the 3rd day good fortune turned to a miracle. Another 2 marlin were caught and successfully released (40% of the day’s tally). On the punishing 44 miles back to port, the question – what the hell are we going to tell them in the clubhouse tonight – was raised. At this point, the skipper and loyal crew decided to pull together the Gwaza formula for effective marlin catching.
 Rule 1 – Drink till the lights go out. This rule was submitted by Henk van Niekerk after an in-depth experiential investigation. All research was undertaken by the full crew in the clubhouse every night before fishing, ending only when the staff switched off the lights. The impact on the crew’s ability to iron out tensions and engage in creative strategising is evident in the results. This rule does, however, come with a warning. This activity can adversely affect the ability to judge levels in fuel tanks. Henk himself suffered this side-effect, resulting in the boat limping into port on 1 engine on day 3.
Rule 2 – Sleep like the dead. The second rule is submitted by the skipper, Andrew van Zyl after many hours of solitary reflection behind the controls, the inert and gently snoring bodies of his crew littering the deck. Having studied the statistics of the tournament he noted with concern the number of ‘on–offs’ suffered by other boats in the fleet. After detailed analysis of the performance of his crew he incontrovertibly deduced that the problem lies in the area of response time.
Using the fish caught and released by crew member, Andre Vlok, as an example, the skipper offers a short case study to elucidate his findings. So deep and coma-like was Vlok’s recovery sleep that it took 1 minute and 7 seconds of pummelling to get him to open his eyes. He remained in a prone position because he could not hear any evidence of a strike (he had forgotten to engage the ratchet!).  To roll over and focus sufficiently to see his line being stripped from his silent reel took another 47 seconds. Struggling slowly to his feet, he confidently announced that he was not a “poepol” and knew when a bucket had been tied to the end of his line. It was only when the marlin leapt high into the air that Vlok came fully to his senses, grabbing his rod from the holder.
The 3 minutes and 13 seconds taken before starting to play the fish provides sufficient time to set the hook soundly and take a good bit of fight out of the fish. This rule posits that a semi-comatose recovery sleep is the best precaution against over-eager response times and the resulting “on-offs”.
Rule 3 – Practice disciplined disorganisation. Complying with this rule can be a painful and costly process.  It is informed by the behavioural psychology background of yours truly, supported by the analytical acumen of Vlok. In this rule, the focus shifts from the role of the angler to the preferences of the fish. This research is based on the most cutting-edge, new scientific field of ‘chaos theory’ (Google if you want to know more).
After a thorough process of eliminating all other reasons for more marlin engaging with Gwaza than with any other boat, one variable presents itself as the determining factor…chaos and disorganisation! It is evident that marlin are not drawn to high levels of organisation and order. A clear preference is displayed for rusted hooks, slightly dysfunctional equipment, regular bird-nesting of lures behind the boat, and a general but rather distinct boat aura from the accumulated detritus of years of snoek and yellowtail fishing.
A paradigm shift is required. Away with those ordered rows of gleaming golden reels. Clearly, the elegance of gently bowed outriggers irritates marlin, and any more than 4 lines simply confuse them. The clinical whiteness of decks smelling of detergent turns out to be a fatal deterrent. To diminish some of the financial pain, we recommend using the eclectic range of occasionally functioning yet reasonably priced equipment carried by pawn shops.
In the spirit of this wonderful tournament, we share with you the benefits of our research. We especially hope the expert marlin fishermen up north might benefit from these previously well-guarded secrets. The loyal crew and the scientific, yet ever enigmatic, skipper of the good boat Gwaza wish you stywe lyne. Remember – keep it good and loose and sommer lekker deurmekaar!”
Last word from the skipper. “Not possessing a suitable reel of his own, James removed an old Penn Senator from its display at my house. He returned with it shiny, oiled and loaded with new line. I gave the strike on my rod to James to catch his first marlin. When the old Penn sprang to life – sounding like a Harley-Davidson – it was my turn. Knowing that the star drag tends to overheat and sometimes freeze after a strong run, I had to focus clearly. Fortunately, as a black-powder rifle hunter, I am used to staying calm under pressure, knowing you only have one chance!  I got burned a couple of times by the reel but eventually succeeded in getting the 100kg fish next to the boat for a textbook release”.


The next year, 2014, Makaira skippered by Mike Broderick, won the Eighth Two Oceans Marlin Tournament. James wrote an ode to the tournament with a congratulatory note to Team Makaira.

Ode to Two Oceans Marlin Tournament 2014
At sacred point where oceans meet
a tournament of old
not for riches or reward
in spirit of camaraderie
taming marlin – dragons of the sea
and so they came
those gallant knights of rod and reel.

Four days they gather in clubhouse
libations to Auster and Neptune
appeasing gods of wind and sea
blessings for the quest
to put fishing talents to the test
and so they drank
those legless knights of rod and reel.

At last the weather wizards speak
the long awaited call rings out
drink dazed knights board chariots
that hundreds of thirsty horses propel
onto a crazed and windswept hell
and so they jousted
those intrepid knights of rod and reel.

On bucking craft they battled on
trolling aft their gaudy baits
to lure great dragons from the deep
returning with stories of many that came
but in final tally only ten are tamed
and so they fished
those canny knights of rod and reel.

When dance nor drink can still the wind
the tournament is ended
three of the ten and all honour
to them upon whose bow was blazoned
the dragon’s name – Makaira
and so they parted
those undaunted knights of rod and reel.

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I extend sincere thanks to James for contributing this story and poem from the tournament’s earlier years. His willingness to share these memories adds depth to this 20th‑year celebration.


The Essential Role of Sponsors in The Two Oceans Marlin Tournament

For two decades, the Two Oceans Marlin Tournament has stood as one of Struisbaai’s most cherished annual events. What began as a small, passionate initiative has grown into a milestone tournament that brings together anglers from across South Africa. And it is the sponsors that are the power behind its long-running success.

Year after year, these incredible businesses have fuelled the heart of the tournament. Many have stood with us since the very beginning, believing in what the tournament represents—community, integrity, sportsmanship, and the preservation of big‑game angling in the Agulhas waters. Their loyalty is not just appreciated; it is foundational to the event’s sustainability and spirit.

Mercury Representative Gareth Dreyer and his wife Delicia at one of our functions Suidpunt Marine are our local Mercury agents
Grant Creighton from Airmar – a loyal sponsor at one of our functions,

A competition of this scale simply cannot happen without sponsors. Their contributions support everything from logistics, safety, and infrastructure to prizes, hospitality, and the overall experience that anglers look forward to every February/March.   Today, we proudly acknowledge and thank the businesses who have walked this 20‑year journey with us—some since the very first marlin was measured and released.

To every sponsor listed here: thank you. Your belief in this tournament, your steady support, and your contribution to Struisbaai’s angling community have helped shape twenty years of unforgettable moments on and off the water. Apologies if I have left any sponsor out. You are all truly appreciated.

AARBEIDSVREUGD
AQUILA GAME RESERVE
ADDIS
AIRMAR
AIRWISE
ANCHOR BOAT SHOP
ANDREW VAN ZYL
ARNISTON HOTEL
BALLYHOO MARINE
BILTONG & JAVA
BIG CATCH
BIG T LURES
BLENCO
B&D TEGNIESE DIENSTE
BON COURAGE WINES
BRECO SEAFOODS
BUFFELSFONTEIN/HALEWOOD
BUILT IT FRANSCHOEK
COFFEE. (FULL STOP) FISH & MORE
CEMSTONE
CENTRAL FORKLIFT
CERTAINTY CHARTERS
CHAS EVERITT CAPE AGULHAS (Previously Realty 1)
CORNELIS HAM
DIRK ODENDAAL
DISTELL
ELIZNA EN JOHAN THEUNISSEN
FIREBUSTER
FPM SUPPLIERS
GARMIN SA
GLENWOOD WINES
GRAHAM BECK WINES
GREENFISH
HEINEKEN
HEINRICH TRIPS
 JACITA TACKLE & OUTDOOR
JEBO CONNECT
HENK AGGENBACH
KIDO STAAL
LOURENS ODENDAAL
MALAGAS HOTEL
NICO ALBERTS INTERIORS
NINA’S DELI
OK GROCER, STRUISBAAI
PAUL DRYER
PENINSULA BEVERAGES
PENN FISHING
PICK N PAY STRUISBAAI
PULSATOR LURES
RAYMARINE AVION
ROBERTSON TOYOTA
RUTHERFORD / MERCURY
M‑RAD / SIMRAD
SEAPORT SUPPLIES
SKI‑BOAT MAGAZINE
SOUTH AFRICAN BREWERIES
SOUTH SEA SUZUKI
SPRINGFIELD WINES
STRUISBAAI HENGELWINKEL
STRUISBAAI SPECIALIST ANGLING
SUIDPUNT SECURITY
SUIDPUNT MARINE
TILETORIA
VAN LOVEREN FAMILY WINES
VILJOENSDRIFT WINES
WALKER BAY FIRE ENGINEERING
ZULU OVERLAND

Here’s to the next twenty—and to the partners who help make it all possible.

The Two Ocean Marlin Tournament – The Legends

As mentioned in our introductory post, The Two Oceans Marlin Competition splashed into life back in February 2007 with just seven brave boats on the starting line. One name has been there from the very beginning — Gawie Bruwer — who has shown up every single year, rain, shine, or sea spray.

Gawie has always skippered a boat named Indigo, even though this name has gone through three incarnations. And in 2009, Indigo took first prize in the tournament.

While many people contributed to the early vision, it was Gawie who drove the practical organisation that transformed the idea into the first official tournament. When others were still talking about possibilities, Gawie stepped up and turned the tournament from an idea into a reality. He crafted the very first credo, laid the foundation for how the tournament would run, and set the standard that is still followed today.

The thing everyone should know about Gawie Bruwer is that this isn’t just someone who excels as an angler and skipper — this is someone who makes big things happen. We are genuinely grateful for everything he has done for TOMT.

A Recent Indigo
Gawie Bruwer, Skipper of Indigo – Winner in 2009

Other legendary skippers are Andrew van Zyl (Gwaza) who has participated in 18 tournaments, (A Legendery Story about their win will appear in a later post this week) Rikus de Beer (Marco Polo) also has 18 under the belt, Mike Broderick (first with Makaira and later Bad Company) has done 15.  

Gwaza Winner in 2013
Winner in 2014

Another amazing legend is Andrew Perrins, who wasn’t just part of the team that kicked off the competition, but ever since day one, he has been the voice over the radio waves, keeping everyone afloat both navigationally and emotionally. At sea, his steady stream of witty commentary has done more for morale than calm waters and good weather combined.   Andrew lives and works in the United Kingdom, where, even while there under his call sign, Skiboat Mobile, he can do radio control for competitions back in South African waters. When Andrew returns to South Africa for R&R, he does not hesitate to dedicate his time to safety at sea, and TOMT is closest to his heart.
Andrew, who speaks fluent Doganese, has always had a dog helping him keep things under control. For the 10th TOMT, Oak Valley wines created a Shanga Label and several bottles were auctioned at one of the evening functions.

Shanga – a legend in her own right
A rare vintage
Later on, Marlin Control was ably assisted by Rue, the German Shepherd [RIP)

At the evening functions, he transforms into a master of ceremonies dishing out strafdoppe for nautical “misdemeanours,” or running fund‑raiser auctions with the flair of a show host.   Andrew is the tournament’s unofficial entertainment department.

Entertaining at the evening function

In 2022, Gawie Bruwer, convinced that certain TOMT stalwarts deserved formal recognition for their contributions to the competition and to angling, introduced a special annual citation. Since then, one has been presented at each tournament’s opening function.

2022 Johan van der Walt one of the initiators of TOMT
2023 Over 80 years old and still fishing! Uncle Ted Horn who has fished many TOMTs on Mike Riley’s Cattitude
2024 Mike Broderick – involved since the early days of TOMT, Skippered the 2014 winner, Makaira
2025 Koos Pretorius – a loyal supporter of TOMT, Skippered the winner Osprey in 2012

Safety at sea is of the utmost importance to Koos Pretorious, and it is thanks to his generous sponsorship of the current radio control system developed by Andrew Perrins, Trevor Brinch and Earl Fenwick that has resulted in VHD communications beyond our expectations. This ranges up to more than a 100 nautical mile radius. This system is owned by Suidpunt Diepseehengelklub and has a maritime coast station licence. The resident operator is Trever Brinch – call sign – Spotter One!

The system is linked via Zello, enabling backup to be done anywhere in the world, allowing Andrew Perrins to stand by Spotter One when needed to control operations from abroad. This is the first time this has been done in the world.

The Two Oceans Marlin Tournament – How It All Began

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This February, Struisbaai will once again host one of its most cherished traditions—the Two Oceans Marlin Tournament, now celebrating its 20th year! From 21 to 27 February, anglers from across South Africa will gather for a week of excitement, camaraderie, and unforgettable moments on the water.

What makes this tournament truly special is its independent spirit. Unlike most competitions, the Two Oceans Marlin Tournament is not affiliated with Western Province or SADSSA. Instead, it’s run by the anglers themselves, with rules and decisions shaped by those who participate year after year. This unique approach has fostered a close-knit community, with many of the same boats and teams returning annually, building friendships and traditions that last well beyond the final function.

The tournament’s roots trace back to the late Meirion Williams of Huckfin fame, who, inspired by a conversation with local fisherman Trail Whitthuhn, envisioned an event to study and celebrate the marlin population in the Agulhas area. Thanks to the dedication of contributors like Gawie Bruwer, Hannes Schreuder, Gerard De Kock, Johan Jooste, Andrew Perrins and Johan van der Walt, the idea became a reality.
Safety has always been central to the event, with Andrew returning from the UK each year and working alongside local experts such as Trevor Brinch and Earl Fenwick to keep operations running smoothly and radio communications firmly under control.

Before a permanent aerial was installed on the high site, Realty 1 Agulhas (now Chas Everitt) sponsored a caravan on the Agulhas mountain, where Andrew managed the Marlin Control operations. Temporary aerials were used in the years that followed, but a permanent installation has now been in place for some time.

The original Marlin Control

The Two Oceans Marlin Tournament is an invitational, no-kill, measure-and-release event. Anglers present video evidence of their catches, and points are awarded. In 2021, there was a tie. The rule now states that if the points are even, the boat that catches the last marlin of the week will be declared the winner.

The first tournament was held in 2007 and began modestly with just seven boats taking part: Gawie Bruwer’s Indiogo, Andrew van Zyl’s Gwaza, Meirion Williams’s Huckfin, Hannes Schreider’s Jumbo-Jumbo, The Rawbone‑Viljoen brothers’ Midnight Blue, Johan Jooste’s Three Js, and Nico Schmidt’s Monique.

Fittingly, the inaugural winner was Huckfin, owned by the tournament’s founder, the late Meirion Williams. In 2009, Indigo claimed victory, and Gawie has entered the tournament every year since 2007. After the initial fleet of seven boats, entries jumped to 23 in 2008. Participation peaked at 39 boats in both 2011 and 2014, though most years see between 18 and 25 entrants. As we count down to this year’s milestone event, we’ll be sharing stories, photos, and memorable moments from the past two decades.

Meirion Williams (RIP)
TOMT Shirts 2007 to 2017
Four of the original founders of TOMT Hannes Schreider, Gawie Bruwer, Andrew Perrins, Johan van der Walt

Each year, Amanda Bruwer designs a playful TOMT flag, and the previous year’s flag is auctioned off to the highest bidder. Here are three examples from past tournaments.

This is the first in a series of posts counting down to this year’s tournament. The next instalment will appear on Monday, followed by daily posts until 21 February. After that, you can look forward to regular updates as the Twentieth Two Oceans Marlin Tournament unfolds.

Share Your World 2 February 2025 – Animal Memories and Adventures

Here are my answers to this week’s SYW questions from Di

1. Are you a dog or cat person, or do you prefer no pets, or are you unable to have one for some reason?
I’ve always been an animal person. Every creature has been welcome in our home. Throughout the years of raising our children and grandchildren, we always had pets — dogs, cats, hamsters and often all three at the same time.
When we retired and moved to Struisbaai, we still had three cats in the family. They stayed with our daughter, who is very much a cat person, and we’ve love that we can to visit them regularly.
Because of our gypsey lifestyle when we retired, we decided not to take on pets of our own. Even so, as I’ve mentioned on my blog before, we have four neighbourhood cats who visit us regularly — and we adore every one of them. Mike and Alan live next door. Mimi lives over the road, and Charlie comes from a house in a street parallel to ours. When the cats decide to visit at the same time there can be chaos. Alan won’t tolerate competition. He and Mike think they own our house as they were the first to claim our affections. Mike is more tolerant of the others but he has to be loyal to his brother! Mimi is a little more tolerated than Charlie so if the going gets really tough, we gently ask Charlie to leave. He obliges but only after he’s given Alan a playful smack!
Their parents worry that they might decide to stay permanently, but we won’t allow that to happen and they seem to know when it’s home time and usually don’t have to be sent home at the end of a visit.


2. Did you have a pet as a child?
My first pet memories are of the animals my grandparents had. We lived in a flat and no pets were allowed. Granny and Grandpa had a very big garden and lots of pets. The two dogs were fox terriers named Sparky and Atom. Atom was Sparky’s puppy and we thought he was the cleverest dog in the world. There were also the cats, Kitsy, Sylvester and Tibby. Kitsy and Silvester were white. Tibby was a tortoiseshell.

I only remember having one cat, and after he died, my mother refused to let me have another. She was convinced I was allergic to cats, and to be fair, there were times when my eyes streamed whenever I was near them. These days, my allergies are clearly seasonal, so I often wonder whether I was truly allergic to cats back then or whether it was just an unfortunate coincidence. None of my own cats in later years has affected me much at all.

I also remember getting a dog when we finally moved into a house after spending the first few years of my life in a flat. He was a little pavement special named Buster — a big name for a small dog — but he was feisty and fiercely protective of the people he loved. His one great flaw was his obsession with chasing bicycles. We got Buster when I was about nine, and he stayed with us until I was in my early twenties.
The best dog I ever owned was a medium-sized black mongrel hat looked like it could have had some labrador and spaniel ancestry. Her name was Tammy and she loved to go running with me. I had to be careful not to mention the words, run, takkies, beach, or Chantal (my running partner) until I was absolutely ready to leave or she would go crazy with excitement!

Chantal’s youngest, Beth, teaching Tammy to beg.

3. Have you ever ridden a horse?
Yes, I have ridden a horse. Growing up, I had a horse‑mad friend who lived on a smallholding and always had a few horses ready to go. She was a fearless, tomboyish sort who thought nothing of taking me bareback at full speed through tree‑lined paths where you had to duck unless you fancied losing your head. It was equal parts exhilarating and terrifying.

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As an adult, I married a man with two horse‑mad daughters, and every year we holidayed on their uncle’s farm in KZN. Their cousins were just as besotted with horses, and they insisted I join them on their rides. I did—right up until the day the supposedly “gentle” pony bucked me off and left me with a very unhappy back. I declared “never again” with great conviction.

But, of course, many years later, another horse‑crazy friend talked me into a long beach ride on the Wild Coast. And it was fun. She was thoroughly impressed that, after years out of the saddle and at the age of 50, I galloped along like I actually knew what I was doing. And that was definitely the end of my horse-riding days!

4.  What was your favourite animal in either a zoo or circus?
I live in Africa, so you won’t catch me dead in a zoo or a circus. The idea of animals in captivity just doesn’t sit comfortably with me. That said, I do understand that many wildlife sanctuaries — the genuine ones, not the tourist traps — do important work. They’re educational, and for some people, they’re the only chance they’ll ever have to see a wild animal up close.

I, on the other hand, count myself lucky to have seen so many creatures in their natural habitat. The SANParks reserves are extraordinary, and nothing compares to watching wildlife where it truly belongs.

Choosing a favourite animal is nearly impossible, but the giraffe comes very close. There’s something so elegant and unmistakably African about them. It is breathtaking seeing them decorate the African landscape. And when one looks you straight in the eye, it’s almost a spiritual moment — as if they’re quietly evaluating your soul.

I could go on for pages about the wild animals I love, but I’ve already poured all of that into my travel blogs, and I’ll spare you the full version today.

Gratitude:

Today’s questions have allowed me to reflect on some great things in my early life as well as the privileges I have had as an adult. There have certainly been some tough things to deal with over the years but altogether Life has treated me well even if I haven’t always paused to appreciate that fact. Now that I am in my golden years I am so grateful for the pets that have enriched my life, the fun and freedom I had as a child and the joy that my adult adventures have brought me.
Recently I received the heartbreaking news that a very dear friend is terminally ill and I am grateful for the role that she has played in my life and the gentle friendship that has lasted between us since our college days.

Share You World Monday 19 January 2026 – Dreaming of Private Jets and Luxury Travel

Here are my answers to this week’s fun questions from Di

Would you like to have your own private jet?
I was absolutely meant to have my own private jet but unfortunately, something went wrong and I have found myself travelling steerage along with the lesser mortals of this world. I have not even had the good luck to be upgraded for no reason whatsoever like a few of my luckier friends who tell me it was an awesome experience. If I had my own jet as the gods intended, it would be on standby to take me on urgent missions like seeking out where hostages are hidden and rescuing them from their evil captors!

Would you like a chauffeur to drive you everywhere?
Oh, without hesitation. I want a chauffeur who glides through traffic like a Zen master. Someone who can reverse‑park into a space the size of a shoebox while I sit in the back pretending to be extremely important. Ideally, the car would also have heated seats, a bottomless supply of biltong and champagne, and the ability to magically avoid every pothole on the South African roads.

Would you like to live on your own desert island?
A desert island? Absolutely not. I’ve seen enough survival shows to know I’d last about 14 minutes before trying to befriend a coconut. But a tropical island with warm breezes, turquoise water, and luxury accommodation — now that I could work with. I wouldn’t want to live there alone, though. I’d bring the people I love, plus a small staff who’d be treated like royalty and get plenty of time off to enjoy the island, too.

Have you ever had anything made to measure (suit, dress, shoes etc)
Oh yes — growing up, my mother made most of my clothes. She could look at a pattern, raise one eyebrow, and somehow produce a perfectly fitted outfit as if by sorcery. Later on, I made clothes for myself and my children, following the pattern instructions to the letter. I even made my middle daughter’s matric dance dress – with my mother’s expert guidance! I no longer do dress making!

In 1996, I paid a professional dressmaker R600 (£26) to custom-make a green silk dress for my daughter’s wedding. I have worn it to many glamorous functions, the latest being at my granddaughter’s wedding in 2024. To put things in perspective, today the same dress would cost R2700 (£120). Considering that I have had this dress for 30 years, I’d say I got my money’s worth!

And here are The Earl and me looking like we belong in the world of private jets and chauffeur-driven limousines. But really, we’re just guests at our granddaughter’s wedding!

Gratitude: One from Carolyn this week.

It was fun to fantasise about a different world this week but I love this meme above. It is the little things that matter and make one grateful.

Share Your World Monday 5 January 2026 Striding into 2026

Here are my answers to this week’s questions from Di

The illustrations in this post are AI-generated

 1. How long did it take you to get back into the normal swing of things after the holidays?
It took me a little while to get back into the normal swing of things. We let our house out on Airbnb over the holidays, which meant quite a bit of preparation beforehand and then just as much sorting out afterwards. My cleaner came in the day before we returned, so we walked into a lovely clean house, but there was still plenty to do. The beds had been remade, but all the used linen still needed washing and ironing. Things we’d packed away for guests had to be unpacked again, sorted, and put back in their proper places.
All those little chores added up, but today I’m happy to say the house is finally back to normal — and I feel like I’m back in my routine again.



2.  Are you looking forward to 2026 with
optimism?

I usually look on the bright side, so yes — I am optimistic about 2026. There will be quite a few changes to our lifestyle, and some of them have already begun. Our camping days are behind us now, and we won’t be doing any major travelling anymore. But there are new projects on the horizon, and I’m hopeful that I’ll find real fulfilment in those. It feels like a different season of life, but a good one.

Looking forward to an interesting 2026

3.  Are you taking part in any of the January WP challenges/prompts?
I hadn’t planned to, but maybe I will change my mind.

4. 


If I could wish one thing for 2026, it would be that everything works out well for each member of our family. Everyone seems to be facing some kind of change this year. Our oldest daughter is in a new relationship, the youngest is navigating changes at work, and the middle one is adjusting to an empty nest while her youngest steps into new career plans. One grandson is preparing to leave the country, while his brother abroad is planning a move to yet another foreign destination. Our married granddaughter has just completed her teaching degree, and although she’s currently working in her husband’s family business, she may decide to pursue a teaching post.
So yes — 2026 is shaping up to be an interesting year, and my wish is simply that each of them finds stability, happiness, and a sense of direction in all these new beginnings.

Gratitude:

I am grateful that everyone in my family is in good health and ready to embrace 2026 with optimism and hope.

Share Your World 15 December 2025 Story Time

Here are my answers to this week’s questions from DI

Life was hectic through November and the start of December, and I fell behind on both reading and writing blogs. Thankfully, things have settled down a little, and I’m easing back into it again.

Did anyone read you bedtime stories as a child?
My mother often read to my siblings and me, though not always at bedtime. I treasured those moments well into my older childhood, especially since I had a much younger brother. (I read to him too!) Winnie the Pooh, Beatrix Potter’s tales, and The Wind in the Willows were firm favourites.

Did you read bedtime stories to anyone?
As a primary school teacher, I read to my classes regularly. I also read to my younger brother, my children, and later my grandchildren—though not always at bedtime.

Reading The Grinch who Stole Christmas to my grandchildren

Do you prefer books, ebooks, or audiobooks?
My first choice will always be a proper book. That said, I’m not opposed to Kindle reading, and I also enjoy audiobooks. I usually have one on the go—they’re wonderful companions while walking, driving, or tackling household chores.


What is your favourite fairy tale?
As a child, I disliked fairy tales, finding them cruel and frightening. Wicked stepmothers abandoning children in forests or poisoning stepdaughters with apples—those were the stuff of nightmares! But as a teenager, I began reading them for myself and grew to love them. I read them to my younger brother too, and he enjoyed them. My favourite is The Frog Prince. After all, don’t we all have to kiss a few frogs before finding our prince? Beyond that, the story’s moral about keeping promises is truly inspiring.

Gratitude
I love the meme for this week’s SYW.
I am truly thankful for my Fairytale life. I kissed the right frog and won my prince, I became a step-mother and didn’t abandon them in the woods, I got to live in a beautiful ‘castle’ with everything I needed, my ‘coach’ gets me to faraway places and I am surrounded by princes and princesses who bring us great joy.


Camping Etiquette: Essential Tips for a Harmonious Experience

Introduction from Helen
Camping—what’s not to love? It’s the ultimate escape from the frantic pace of modern life.
But let’s be honest—while most campers are delightful, there’s always the odd one who is thoughtless and does not consider his/her fellow man. That’s where a gentle nudge toward camping etiquette comes in handy. Not rules, exactly—more like friendly reminders that keep the peace and preserve the magic. Perhaps these reminders should appear in brochures, blogs and signs in ablution blogs and reception areas.
Cathy, our guest blogger, has penned a brilliant guide to the unwritten rules of the wild. Her tips are thoughtful, practical, and worth considering.

(Images are AI generated)

Camping Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules of the Wild
There’s a quiet code among campers—an unspoken agreement that we’re all here to enjoy nature, not to intrude on each other’s peace. Whether you’re tucked into a remote corner of the bush or sharing space at a bustling national park, a little courtesy keeps the experience magical for everyone.
These were rules taught to me by my parents—simple, thoughtful guidelines for camping that I’ve lived by through all my years in the bush. They shaped how I move through wild spaces: with care, respect, and a touch of old-school courtesy. But lately I’ve found myself wondering—are these still relevant? Or have we moved on from these quiet codes of conduct?

Remember Your Manners

Respect the Soundscape
Nature has its own rhythm—wind through the trees, the distant call of a nightjar, the soft crackle of a fire. It’s a symphony that doesn’t need a bass boost. Keep conversations gentle, music low, and save the dramatic retelling of your cousin’s wedding for daylight hours. Quiet hours aren’t just campground rules—they’re a kindness to the early risers, the light sleepers, and the wildlife who didn’t sign up for your playlist.

Listen to the sounds of Nature

Stay in Your Lane (and Out of Theirs)
It might seem harmless to cut across someone’s campsite to reach the ablution block or a friend’s site, but it’s a bit like walking through their living room. Campsites are personal spaces, even if they’re just a patch of grass and a folding chair. Stick to paths, respect boundaries, and if you’re unsure—circle wide. A friendly wave from a distance is always better than a surprise appearance next to someone’s kettle.

Teach your kids to respect the space of others

Leave No Trace (and No Toast Crumbs)
The principle is simple: take out what you bring in or dispose of it in the proper place. That includes food scraps, packaging, and the dirty water from your in-van shower. Wildlife doesn’t need our leftovers, and fellow campers shouldn’t have to pick up or clean up after you. Use bins, if provided, or pack your waste out. Bonus points for picking up a stray wrapper that isn’t yours—karma in the wild is real.

Keep your space clean


Share the Space
Campsites aren’t private kingdoms. Be mindful of how your setup affects others—don’t sprawl across paths, block scenic views, or monopolize communal areas like picnic tables or fire pits. If your tent looks like it’s auditioning for a glamping magazine, make sure it’s not encroaching on someone else’s peace. A bit of spatial awareness and a friendly hello go a long way in building a respectful camping community.

A considerate set-up

Nighttime Courtesy: Torch Use and Awareness
Walking at night around the camp demands a little extra mindfulness. A torch isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. It prevents you from tripping over roots or stepping on something far less forgiving, like a snake or a scorpion. But how you use it matters.
It’s too easy to blind other campers with torches that are waved around. The trick is to keep the light low, pointed at the ground, lighting your path without disturbing others. Headlamps are handy, but they require extra mindfulness—tilt them down and resist the urge to look directly at people while chatting.

Use torches thoughtfully

Fire with Care
There’s something primal about gathering around a fire—but it’s also a responsibility. Use designated braai areas, keep flames manageable, and never leave a fire unattended. When the embers die down, make sure they’re truly out. Our Tearful Bokkie may be fictional, but the risk isn’t.

Make sure campfires are properly extinguished

Hygiene Happens
Washing dishes at the tap, brushing teeth next to the water tank, leaving a shower stall swamped, or rinsing muddy boots and ground-sheets in the shower block? Maybe not. Use proper facilities, biodegradable soap, and keep shared spaces clean for the next person. If you don’t want to step in it barefoot, don’t leave it behind. And yes, that includes toothpaste blobs, hair in the shower drain, and rogue spaghetti strands.
Camping is about connection—with nature, with others, and with ourselves. A little etiquette ensures the experience stays wild in all the right ways.

Use the correct facility and leave it spotless for the next camper