Category Archives: Uncategorized

Share Your World 28 September 2020

Here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks.

Where do you feel most at home?  Please be more specific than “at home, doh” please. It could be a room in your home, a person, a location…  

I really like this question because there are lots of places where I feel at home. There are also many places where I don’t feel at home and it’s all to do with the people and the atmosphere in these places. I instinctively know when I am not welcome. I feel ‘bad’ vibes in places and can’t wait to get away from such environments. There are people who I know well yet I still don’t feel comfortable in their homes. Then there are plenty of places where I feel relaxed and totally at home. I feel at home wherever my family is even though there are times we don’t get on. That doesn’t seem to make a difference at all. In my family we are all totally welcome in each other’s homes. There have been times that I have found myself in a total stranger’s house and yet felt completely welcome and at home because that stranger is a kindred spirit.

Then there are the places that are really special that have nothing to do with four walls. The moment I enter the Kruger National Park, I feel completely at home. Being there is good for my soul. It’s my happy place and no other place can compare. I love my own home, I love Struisbaai and I feel totally at home when visiting Cape Town where I grew up but nothing compares to the absolute joy I experience when I reside in my caravan in The Kruger National Park!

Celebrating my birthday at Mopani in Kruger National Park –

Would you rather ride a bike, ride a horse, or drive a car?     

I used to enjoy riding a bike but I’ve given it up. I can’t risk falling off anymore. Horse riding was also fun and I did ride a few times as a child and then again as an adult. My most memorable ride was galloping down a Wild Coast beach on a hired steed with a horse-riding friend of mine. I was forty years old and have never ridden since.

Bike Riding with my grandsons – a-long-time-ago

So I suppose I will have to choose the last one even though I seldom do that anymore either! The Earl does most of the driving and I don’t even own a car anymore.

What song would you sing on “Karaoke Night” (if you were forced to do so)?    

The Earl and I have two songs – Lady in Red – which he can sing at the Karaoke night and The Power of Love which I’ll take. I am not a singer but I think I could lipsync convincingly.

University or life experience, which do you feel best prepares you for life? 

 Definitely life experience. Of course university is useful but plenty of people get by and do very well without a degree or a diploma. I believe a work ethic is far more important. I also know plenty of well-educated people who have not done much in their lives. Then there are those who have been hugely successful in spite of poor beginnings. I definitely admire people who just get out there and do things without making excuses. Also people who’ve had it tough in life tend to make good in the end. I think of people in my own family who have made things happen for themselves without depending on their parents or grandparents . Too many people blame their circumstances for their lack of success. Having a dream is all very well and I certainly encourage people to go for it. But if for some reason you can’t achieve it then for heaven’s sake find something else to do. There is also nothing wrong with not having an unrealistic dream. We also need ordinary people to do ordinary things. Stand out if you can otherwise fit in and get on with it.

IT’S AN ATTITUDE – GRATITUDE!  (Participation Always Optional Of Course)

What are you grateful for?

Funny you should ask. The Earl and I were going through old photographs. What memories they conjured up and looking back we realised how lucky we are to have had a variety of amazing experiences in our lives. We found a little card from our grandson which read, Grandpa, you didn’t ask for a grandchild like me – you just got lucky!

Yes indeed we are very lucky and we wouldn’t change a thing.

Share Your World 21 September 2020

Here is my contribution to this week’s challenge from Sparks

This is the last week “Share Your World” will have two parts.  The excellent blogger, Roger Shipp, is the creator and host (if you will) of the first part.  I’m going to link to Roger’s blog so you can post your link over on his blog OR you can do it here as usual.

Roger deserves a big round of applause for co-hosting Share Your World for these past weeks.   I’m grateful he was so clever and thought up a fun way to pass some time!   Please let me know, in the comments, if you enjoyed this idea.   I know I did!    Thanks Roger!

Roger’s Magical, Mystical Questions: 

Have you ever driven the wrong way on a one-way street? How did this come about?]

Yes I have. I wasn’t paying attention. Luckily I got away with it as there was very little traffic but I got one or two strange looks. People can be nice though and they made sure to move out the way to let me through.

As a kid, did you ever decide to run away? Did you have a plan? Take a pet? Sandwiches?

No I didn’t but my kid did. She did not want to accompany the family on a visit to friends who had no children her age. She was six and had just started school. She disappeared into her bedroom and reappeared with a packed bag. “I’m leaving,” she announced.

I said, “Oh no! Where will you go?”
She hadn’t thought about that but gave me a look and headed off down the road.

“Come back,” I said. “I’ll miss you.”

So she turned around and came back. When I checked to see what she had packed, it was her school uniform. No way was she going to skip class!

You suddenly found you have a hidden talent for playing a musical instrument. What musical instrument do you hope that accompanies your talent? Any particular song?

I have always wished I’d continued with piano lessons, so piano it would be. I would play all the oldies from the sixties.

Do you accessorize with jewelry? There was an opal necklace (cursed) and Slytherin’s locket (also cursed) in the Potter story. Have you had any heirloom jewelry passed down through the generations? Is it more ‘keepsake’ or do you wear it on occasion? (Hopefully, yours was not cursed?)

Yes I do wear jewelry. I inherited a diamond ring from my mother but I had it reset as my fingers are smaller than hers were. I also have a ruby ring of hers which I seldom wear.


Melanie’s Ordinary Muggle Questions:

What ingredients go into YOUR favourite salad?

I make a salad every single day. (Those of you who follow my blog will know of my Mediterranean heritage.) My basic salad consists of green leaves like lettuce, rocket and/or spinach. Then there is usually cucumber, tomato, avocado pear, feta cheese and olives. I may add carrots, sugar snap peas, mango or pineapple, radishes, baby corn and cauliflower or broccoli. A sprinkle of nuts and/or seeds is also an added extra. If we have guests I make a salad dressing of olive oil, lemon juice and vinegar with salt, pepper and mixed herbs otherwise the Earl and I don’t worry with it.

If you care to, share something that really irritates you.

The unnecessary noises that little boys make. Why do they insist on making strange explosive noises all the time? I don’t mind the sounds of motorbikes or shooting they make while playing their noisy games but those stupid emissions from their mouths that have no meaning whatsoever are most annoying.

What are your favorite ‘lounging around the house’ items of clothing?  Now that a lot of people ‘lounge around the house’ waiting for the all clear in respect to Covid being shown the door, have those lounging items changed?

I don’t often wear lounging clothes even during lockdown. But my clothes are not uncomfortable. In winter I wear Denims and long-sleeved shirts and cardigans or jerseys (jumpers) It is Spring now and we have had some warm days and taken out my dresses and shorts.

If I do wear lounging clothes it would be stretch pants and t-shirt.

GRATITUDE (as always this is optional)

Please feel free to share something about Autumn (or Spring if you’re gearing up for that) that you especially enjoy! 

It is Spring here in the southern hemisphere. Autumn is my favourite season but Spring comes a close second. Autumn, because the hot days are becoming cooler and are usually windless. I just love still sunny days. Spring takes its time getting here and after a lovely warm day we will suddenly get a cold snap again. I love spring for the colourful wild flowers that start popping up in the bush. My garden also has a lovely display of clivias at the moment.

Share Your World 14 September 2019

Here are my answers to this week’s SYW from Sparks.

She says, “For the next two weeks “Share Your World” will have two parts.  The excellent blogger, Roger Shipp, is the creator and host (if you will) of the first part.   He found a unique way of passing some of the quarantine time and that was from watching ALL the “Harry Potter” movies.   He came up with some really fun and intriguing questions (four a week for each movie) about the movie in question.   This week we visit “HP And The Half Blood Prince”.   I’m going to link to Roger’s blog so you can post your link over on his blog OR you can do it here as usual.

I’m reiterating this ‘disclaimer’:  I realize some folks have never seen nor read a single book or seen any movie about Harry Potter.   Therefore I’m going to do three or four ‘regular’ questions for folks who aren’t Harry fans.  It’s cool to do both sets OR just one or the other, as you wish. “

Share Your World Meets Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince

(Book/Film Six – there is one more to go!)

https://rogershipp.wordpress.com

Roger’s Magical, Mystical Questions: 

You have just been gifted a magic wand that specializes in completing household chores. You can request the completion of only two household chores. Which chores would you assign your wand to complete?

Clean the windows and Change the bed linen – they both make me tired.

At the local Wizards-R-Us store there was a sale on handshake shockers, instant darkness pellets, and levitation pills. Which of these ‘party thrillers’ are you more likely to purchase?

Levitation pills – it would be fun to rise up in the air and float about.

In the alley behind Wizards-R-Us, there was a tradesman selling a Love Potion. The sales pitch was too much for you and you yielded and purchased one vial. What do you do with it?

Give it to my fussy daughter and introduce her to a suitable young man.

You are the Great Clearinghouse Winner of a new ‘good luck’ potion – Felix Felicis. It has to be used within the next thirty days or its potency becomes diminished. Do you use it? Do you give it to a friend in need?

I have a friend who needs of lot of good luck at present. I would give it to her.

Melanie’s Mundane Muggle Questions:

If everyone spoke their mind, would this world be a better or worse place?  Why?

It would be a worse place if everybody spoke their mind. There is a time and place to speak your mind. We should not play games though. Expecting others to guess what you really are feeling is self defeating – they won’t. It would be great if we all communicated how we felt and what we wanted from each other.

Can achieving nothing make a person happy?

It depends on what you mean by achieving nothing. Surely we all achieve something. How can achieving nothing make you happy? Since I have been retired I certainly don’t achieve the same things I did in the past but I am really happy with what I do achieve. I am happy with the pace of life but that is because I am at that stage of life when it’s okay to slow down and have different priorities. Personally I feel happier when I have done everything I set out to do each day but also it gives me satisfaction to look back on my life and reflect on all my personal achievement, humble though they are. I wrote the first draft of a book in 2007 and then didn’t look at it again for years. I didn’t feel it was the right time to publish it. But I dislike having uncompleted projects. I won’t go into the reasons why I left it so long but the nagging inside me got worse as the years progress until l I took it out again last year and after three more drafts and working with a professional editor it is final ready for publication. That gives me a great sense of satisfaction.
Having said that there are many great achievers who aren’t happy for reasons that have nothing to do with their achievements. Some people for one reason or another just find it very difficult to be happy all the time. Usually they are the ones who care more deeply and worry more earnestly about what is wrong with the world. Without them nothing would be done to right these wrongs. We need them to balance the happy go lucky types of this world.

I know that mental illness makes it difficult for many people to bring themselves out of depression but for those who are not ill, happiness is a choice. Mental illness aside, you can choose to make yourself miserable, you can wallow in your misery or you can do something about it, get help and try to find one some joy in life. I know many people who have experienced great disasters in their lives yet they choose to move on, make others their priority and spread cheer to all around them.

Of course you can be happy, if for just one week or one day, you achieve nothing. You probably deserve the break.

How do you know if you love someone enough to marry them?

First of all you have to get past the falling in love bit and consider whether you can live with this person for the rest of your life. Are you friends? Do you communicate well? Do you enjoy each other’s company? I believe if you can work out differences and put up with minor irritations you can last for life. But if you are being used and abused then you should get out no matter how much you love the good in the partner you originally chose. In the words of Alfred Lord Tennyson, ‘Tis better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.”

GRATITUDE SECTION  (as always this is optional)

Please feel free to write about or share an image of something you’re grateful for!

I usually take my good health very much for granted. Last year brought me up short when I went down with pneumonia which was the most serious illness I have ever suffered. I was most grateful that I bounced back from that very quickly. I eat healthily, exercise regularly and take my vitamins. But I am not as invincible as I once thought and recently I came down with food poisoning which lasted four days and has left me feeling weak and fatigued. It made me realise again how lucky I am not to suffer from any debilitating disease. I am really grateful for that. I know in my head that life is fragile. At my age I am attending more funerals than weddings – these days on Zoom! I am grateful for having known those friends now gone but it still breaks my heart that I won’t see them in this world again. Every day is precious. I am grateful for each one that I enjoy in good health.

 

Lockdown in South Africa – Level Two

Apologies that I have been missing in action for some time.   I have been putting all my energy into another writing project and have neglected the blogosphere quite considerably.  I will be getting back to reading and writing blogs soon.  

Here in South Africa, we have just come to the end of Level Three Lockdown.  Our president addressed the nation last night and announced that from Monday midnight the country will have some more restrictions lifted and we will be placed on Level Two Lockdown.  

When Lockdown began at Level Five there was a ban on cigarettes and alcohol.  The ban on alcohol was lifted at Level Three but then reinstated without warning so many of us were unable to stock up!  However, South Africans are resourceful creatures and when things are unreasonable they will make a plan to get what they want!  I say no more for fear of recrimination!   I just heard that some restaurants were serving ‘tea’ and if you asked for white tea you were sure to get something somewhat stronger!

But now there is great joy and celebration in the country that from Monday to Thursday you can shop for alcoholic and tobacco products.  The smokers amongst us are really delighted as illegal cigarettes were inferior and terribly expensive.  In my opinion, it is dumb to ban products and cripple the economy while criminals benefit from exploiting those who simply refuse to do without!  Has the American Prohibition not taught us this!

Here is a pictorial representation of what our new rules entail

Anyway this lockdown thing has not affected us much down here at the southern tip of Africa. We are a small community of mature age and tend to be quite law abiding. The problem is that the city folk come swarming in on the weekends and we have recently had school holidays – at a strange time due to the crazy changes in when they should and should not be at school! We tend to be a welcoming lot so have not made too much fuss about mixing with the outsiders.

Our youngest daughter spent the first half of Lockdown with us and then went home. She came back for three weeks and we all went to see our other kids in Plettenberg Bay over the Woman’s Day Weekend. They’re on a farm so there was not much contact with other people and it was lovely although the weather was freezing!

We stayed for a week and then came home to equally freezing weather here.

Lockdown has meant that tourism has been very limited. We have not been off in our caravan for the longest time and we are missing the bush. The provincial borders are now open but we still need to see when camping will be opened in the national parks. As soon as we can we will be heading off on safari!

Share Your World 17 August 2020

For the next several weeks “Share Your World” will have two parts. Sparks explains:  “The awesome blogger, Roger Shipp, is the creator and host (if you will) of the first part.   He found a unique way of passing some of the quarantine time and that was from watching ALL the “Harry Potter” movies.   He came up with some really fun and intriguing questions (four a week for each movie) about the movie in question.   This week we visit “The Chamber of Secrets”.  

Share Your World Meets Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

  • Harry Potter can speak to snakes. If you were able to have conversations with any one animal, what animal would you like to speak to? What would be the topic of your first conversation?

I would like to talk to the bunny that visits my garden from time to time. I mean really this creature is a mystery. Why did he choose my garden in the first place? He will come every day for weeks then decide someone else’s abode is a better option and goes missing in action without a word of explanation only to reappear a few days later. I want to ask him where he goes when he’s not here and if he loves it here so much why doesn’t he just stay. I also want to know why he won’t sleep in the sturdy, dry, comfortable and luxurious hutch built specially for him.

It is not just a dining room, Bun-Bun – it’s a suite in which you can live in comfort for the rest of your life. Why do you prefer to dig a dusty burrow and then not sleep in it either?

I’d also like to let him know that he is breaking the Earl’s heart and driving him into gloom when he chooses not to appear.

Have a heart Bun – The Earl worries about you. Just say the word and you can sleep on his bed! But no, you prefer the rain and cold of the outdoors to a place in front of the fire with us. And also – please stop eating my aloes!

  • The portraits in Hogwart’s dormitories can talk. If your graduation portrait could speak to people passing it by, what would it tell them?

I don’t have a framed graduation portrait, just a snapshot of me in a white dress with a black academic gown looking rather proud of myself. My portrait would say to people glancing at it while browsing through old photographs – – – Yes – I was young once. The wrinkly old lady that I have become may not be as cute but she sure is smarter than she was on that day!

  • Harry Potter, Ron Weasley, and Hermione Granger use the Pollyjuice Potion for finding new clues for the happenings at Hogwarts. (The Pollyjuice Potion is a magic potion that allows your body to form into that of another and live their life for a few hours.) If you could transform into another being, who would you chose to be? What would you hope to learn?

Bun Bun – then I would know all the answers to the questions above. I would hope to learn the secret of not giving a darn about letting those who cared where I was and what I was up to.

  • There was a flooding in the girl’s bathroom where Moaning Myrtle resides. What has been the most dangerous (or comical) ‘flooding’ where you reside?

At the last school I taught at my classroom had a door exiting to the playground. When it rained heavily there would literally be a stream that needed to be forged to get into the classroom. The kids loved it and would make little boats to sail on the stream while the teacher would complain about getting her feet wet!

Mundane or “Muggle” Questions:

(Serious one which is rather creepy):  How do you think you’ll die?  IF you do think about it?

I do indeed think about it. Of course I would like to die without being ill first. How wonderful to just wake up dead and find yourself in another better place. I know sudden death is traumatic for those you leave behind but they will get over it. I also hope to die on the same day as my husband but what are the chances of that being peaceful? It would have to be a little more violent for that to happen and I don’t fancy dying in a car, aeroplane of sea accident!

What’s the best on-line screen name you’ve seen? “Best might mean the oddest.

I quite like sonofabeach because it’s a play on words.

What’s invisible that you wish people could see?

Ghosts

If over time you replace parts on a car, at what point does it stop being the same car you bought? How many parts do you need to replace to make it a new car?

There are about 30 000 parts in a car. Some of these obviously need replacing regularly while major parts would only need replacing if something went seriously wrong. You would have to replace all the parts to make it a new car so the best thing to do is just buy a new one!

Share Your World

Here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

Have you ever ‘dined and dashed” (i.e. eaten the meal and then run out the restaurant door without paying)?

I have been tempted when they take their time bringing the bill but no I haven’t actually done this.

Cartoon of the Day-Dasher

Have you ever been in a car accident and either left the scene of the accident (providing it was a fender bender and not serious) or denied culpability for causing it when you did, (if it were minor or serious)?

No, but I did knock a signpost once and did nothing about it.  I got too close to the side of the road and my side mirror clipped the sign – It made an almighty bang and I got an awful fright!   I just carried on driving and I have no idea how the signpost fared.  My mirror was badly scratched.

(Oldie which has been asked many times before)   Have you ever found a wallet or purse or some money (over $20) in the street and just taken it, thinking ‘finders keepers, losers weepers?   Or would you be ‘good’ and hand it in?  

I have picked up loose money on the street and kept it.  I have not kept things of value that I have picked up, like cameras, jewellery, clothing etc.   Those I have handed into the lost property or police station.  However, I have lost a pearl necklace and a watch they were never handed in!

What was the last thing you stole or shoplifted?   If you never ever considered doing that, tell us your secret!   🙂

Not me! I didn’t do it.  It was him!   I was five!  My mischievous cousin swiped some sweets from my uncle’s cafe and tried to share them with me our grandmother who helped in the shop caught us. I was mortified but he thought it was very funny! She gave us each a smack and took the sweets back.

sweet

 

Lockdown in South Africa Day Day 84- Share Your World 15 June 2020

We were put on Alert Level 3 on 1 June.  Most of the economy opened up but travel services and restaurants were still very limited.  Beauty salons could also not operate.   But rumour has that this will change very soon.   Limited numbers of people may be seated inside restaurants and beauty salons will open under strict conditions.  Schools are still closed for all learners except Grade 7 and Grade 12 and visiting friends and relatives is still now allowed.  Clearly, the news about the curative effects of Dexamethasone has influenced these changes.

So far we have had only one confirmed case in Struisbaai. Our town is a popular weekend destination and many Capetonians have holiday homes here.  Recreational fishing has opened up and the weather was good for the Youth Day weekend.  We had quite a number of visitors here.   Hopefully, they did not bring the virus with them!

Here are my responses to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

What do you think of professional motivational speakers?  Do you think they motivate?

I have heard a few good ones and I suppose it depends on what you’re looking for.  I definitely think they make a difference.

motivation

 Do you have a favourite flavour?

Chocolate every time!

chocolate food pyramid cropped

While out walking, you hear a rustling in some bushes.  What do you think of?

If I am walking around my local neighbourhood it is probably a bird and I start looking closer to see if I can find it.  Sometimes it’s a little mouse or even a small buck or a mongoose.  The latter is usually very quick and only the tip of its tail is seen before it disappears.

[019880]

What’s your ideal temperature (nature-wise)?   Hot, cold, temperate and mild, humid or bone dry?

The climate in the Western Cape of South Africa is Meditteranean which means we have warm, dry summers and cool, wet winters.  We also have a ‘secret season’ when during a time when we expect it to be cold and rainy it is actually still, sunny, not too hot and not too cold. It pops up every now and then during autumn/fall and winter. This is my favourite time of the year.   Of course, I love summer – who doesn’t – and I can tolerate the heat.  I do not find cold weather at all pleasant but I do enjoy having a hot cup of soup in front of a warm and cosy fire.   The only snow we are likely to see around where we live is on the mountain peaks.  Sometimes there are snowfalls in places like Ceres and then the snow-starved inhabitants of my country go rushing off in droves to experience it.

The crazy thing about South Africans is that even it snows they still braai outdoors!

braai in snow

That’s me in the pink cap with a group of crazy South Africans having a braai in falling snow.   Verbier, Switzerland – 1993

We often travel to the northern parts of South Africa where it can be incredibly hot in summer.   As long as this is a dry heat, I am okay.  Our caravan and car have airconditioning so there is always an escape if it becomes too unbearable.

Attitude of Gratitude

Sparks shared something beautiful for the attitude of gratitude slot and left it up to us to post or not.  I have decided to post the beautiful aloes blooming in my front garden.

 

 

Lockdown in South Africa – Day 67 – Share Your World

Today is the first day of Level 3 set by the South African government.   This gives a reasonable amount of freedom but as explained in a previous blog there are still a number of issues especially where going back to school is concerned.  Grade 7 and Grade 12 learners officially started today but there are schools that have not opened and some parents are refusing to send their children back just yet.  Online learning is continuing for grades that have not been invited back yet.

For most of us, the fact that we can now buy alcohol is a biggie!   The Earl delayed his walk this morning as he wanted to be the first in the queue.  He need not have worried – there was no queue and no limit on how much he could purchase!

It was wonderful not to have to worry about what time I could go out this morning!   It was a glorious morning but as is normal for this time of year still very cold in the early mornings.  Also, it only gets light after 7 am.  I left for my walk at 9:00 and returned at 10:15!    Later, the Earl decided to take his walk so we took the long route to the harbour.

Today I am participating in Share Your World from Sparks.

Share Your World

Is it ever okay to commit a crime?  Please explain.

There is always a grey area isn’t there!  If a law is stupid or makes no sense whatsoever then I don’t think it is ‘wrong’ to break it.  Take care, though, because if you are caught you could be in serious trouble.   I am a bit of a scared cat when it comes to civil obedience.  Why do something that will get you into trouble if you can avoid it. But I know that if I had to break the law to save or help somebody else I probably would.

 

Do you deal with change well?  (not money, because I know some wit out there is thinking how bulky coins are. Well I did any how.  O_o  ) 

Yes, I do.  I enjoy the challenge.  Having said that I lived in the same place for most of my life and have always had most of my family close to me.

Do you like birds?   The sound of bird song in the morning, taking pictures of them, as food?   

I am indeed a bird enthusiast.   Yes, I love the dawn chorus,  Yes, bird photography is my main hobby.  Wherever I go I’m turned in to the birds and will notice them while walking, driving or anywhere else I find myself.   I was once walking with a friend who is very fashion concious.   A woman passed us.   “Did you see her belt?”  she asked.

“No,” I replied.  “Did you see that heron fly over?”

“NO!” she replied.

We are both very observant – but for different things!

What’s the least used item of clothing you own?

I own a beautiful black lace dress that is about 100 years old.  It belonged to one of my grandmothers.  I have worn it twice and it fits perfectly.  But – it is broken in places and very difficult to repair.  My friend Dalene fixed it with a crochet hook recently and I am determined to wear it again – maybe to a cocktail party – not that we often go to such things anymore.   I don’t have the heart to get rid of this lovely item of clothing.

 


Gratitude:

If you care to share, what are you grateful for?  

Lockdown in South Africa – Day 65

We are now just two days from starting Level 3 of the Lockdown.   The numbers of C-19 cases are increasing in South Africa.  Cape Town has been identified as the worst affected area.  This is where most of our family and friends live.   We have felt sheltered and cocooned in safety here in Struisbaai but the latest news is not good.   We are part of the Overberg district which has also been identified as a hot spot.   There are a few big towns in this area including Hermanus which is still quite far away from us.  But today on checking the data I find that we have one positive case in Struisbaai!  Our nearest town, Bredasdorp, 30 km away has 3 active cases, nearby we have Napier, a small retirement village which also has 3 active cases.  This is now too close for complacency.  The problem is that most people from Napier to Agulhas are retirees.   We are all in the vulnerable category.

socs-badge-2019-2020

Today I am participating in Stream of Consciousness Saturday   The prompt word is Spay/Splay/Spray

During the past three months of Lockdown, I have become obsessed with cleaning.  Nothing crosses the threshold of my house without being completely sanitised.  I have a spray bottle filled with a mixture of bleach and water.  This is used to disinfect every tin, bottle, bag or other packaging in which our groceries are packed.  My fruit and vegetables are taken from the packaging and washed in a solution of vinegar and water before being packed away.  All this take time, of which I have plenty as what else is there to do when your movements are severely restricted.   Then there is the constant cleaning of the house.  I have never been extremely houseproud.   Our home was and often still is full of children, our own, cousins, grandchildren and all their friends which made keeping it orderly a little more difficult than when fewer people are about.   We had a fairly large family home where everybody was welcome and if there was a bit of a mess nobody really cared. On display at my front door is this sign.

It was clean enough.   The dishwasher was always packed and I didn’t like to leave things undone before going to bed but my home would never have featured in Home and Garden magazine!  It wouldn’t now either – but – I am sure you could eat off its floors as it now gets so cleaned and disinfected.  My spray bottle is always to hand!   The Earl gets irritated by my constant washing and wiping.  Towels aren’t used more than twice and into the washing machine, they go.  I don’t know if all this obsessive cleaning makes any difference but it’s part of my new routine now.

I visit the hairdresser every six weeks.  I have short hair and it is easy to maintain as long as I have my regular cuts.  It becomes unmanageable all of a sudden.  I wash it and try to blow it and it just does not do what it’s supposed to do so I go off to my stylist and all is well again – until Lockdown and a moratorium on hairdressing!   Even under Level 3, our hairdressers may not return to work.  So what to do!  I won’t allow the Earl near me with a pair of shears.  I never use hairspray but I’m wondering whether to try it or gel to tame my wayward locks!

 

 

 

Lockdown in South Africa – Day 61 – Share Your World

We had a shower of rain this morning and it is very cold.  We did not go out for our morning walk as the idea is not to compromise our immune systems.  The last thing we want is to get sick during Lockdown!  Well, that’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it!  However, I am not neglecting my aerobic and yoga workouts in the afternoons.

Today I am answering the questions for Share Your World from Sparks

In your opinion, does patriotism require the belief that one’s country is the greatest on earth?

I don’t think it is a requirement of patriotism to believe one’s country is the greatest on earth.  However, one can’t help feeling that one’s country is the best!

I am definitely proudly South African but that does not mean that I don’t see the faults present in my country.  Every country has a history.  Not one is innocent of doing atrocious things in the past. Patriotism used to mean that you would fight wars so your country could conquer another.  That was what happened for many centuries.  We are supposed to have evolved beyond that but there are still countries who would like to rule the entire world and expect their citizens to be patriotic enough to support them.

At the present time, there is a lot wrong in South Africa.  Corruption and crime are rife but from where I stand I see that other countries are not perfect either.  Some are worse and others are better.  In spite of the imperfections, I have never had a desire to seek my fortune elsewhere but at the same time, I don’t blame those of my compatriot who have.  I get annoyed though when certain individuals who have taken the chicken run insist on criticizing what they’ve left behind and try to encourage others to leave the country in the lurch instead of doing something to make it better.

rainbow

Why is patriotism considered by some to be the highest of virtues? What is so important about love of country? Shouldn’t we be more concerned about humankind, or the planet as a whole, rather than a single country?

It is certainly a virtue but perhaps not the highest.  You can’t help but love your country. It’s like loving your parents or your children no matter what their faults are.  It is because you have a connection to your country.  Look around at all the different nationalities.   Nine times out of ten you can guess where a person comes from after spending just a few minutes with the.  Sometimes just the look of them informs you where they’re from.   Here in South Africa, we are a melting pot of diversity but we’re united in our South Africaness!

Rainbow nation

We should indeed be more concerned about humankind and the planet.  It is our duty to make sure that those who rule us consider that if they don’t put things in place to protect the planet there won’t be a country to take care of either.  Perhaps that is what Lockdown is teaching us.

fight for the world

What is the relationship between decisions and consequences?

I often think about what would have happened if I had made different decisions.   Your decisions have consequences for sure.  There is a huge relationship between decisions and consequences.  I can only surmise what would have happened had my decision been different.  All I can say is that I am pretty satisfied with the way things have turned out.   Most of the decisions I made have had good consequences.  But what I wonder is this – what if I had made other good decisions – would the consequences have been worse, as good or better than the ones I am experiencing now?  I shall never know!

consequence meme

What is social justice?

Social justice is all about human rights.   In a functioning world, we should all have access to employment, food, shelter, health care and education.

We have a long way to go to ensure that everyone in the world has social justice.  However, we should all do what we can to work toward this.

Mandela meme

and one ‘easy’ one because those others?  Fairly difficult.

What’s one body part you wouldn’t mind losing? (told you.  Silly).

I wouldn’t mind losing my heart to my beloved!

heart

 


Gratitude:

 

What is something that made you smile during the past week

Rediscovering my crochet hook and starting on a project.

Crochet hook