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Travelling in the time of Covid – Kruger National Park Day 3 – Skukuza to Lower Sabie and Back

The question about when the best time to visit is a difficult one to answer. Any time is good. If you are a keen birdwatcher then summer is definitely the best because the migrant birds will be here. If you can’t take extreme heat then rather come between May and August. The days will be warm and dry but the nights will be quite chilly. Summer is the rainy season so it is very green and the grass is high making it a little trickier to see the animals. They are very good at hiding away. We have been at least once during each season and for us, in spite of the heat, we prefer summer. November is great because there are usually lots of baby animals too. It is the beginning of the rainy season and when it rains it cools everything down too.

Today it was clear and sunny with just the odd fluffy white cloud skidding across the sky. At 6 am it was 20 degrees C but by mid-morning it had risen to the hight thirties and even got as high as 40 at Lower Sabie! We cope with the heat because we have air con in the car and also in the caravan!

When I stepped outside the caravan this morning I was greeted by one of the locals.

I hope you’re enjoying your stay in my country!

We left Skukuza at six o’clock and returned at quarter to two. There is little point being out in the heat of the day as the animals and birds are not very active then.

We were really pleased the sun was out as the birds were really active during the first part of our trip. Their tantalising calls had us stopping and seeking and becoming really frustrated when they sang and sang but would not show themselves. Others show themselves but refuse to pose for the blog. Hower, we were happy to enjoy the speckled mousebirds, a green-winged pytilia (Melba Finch), crested francolin and swainson’s francolin before turning off onto the H4-1 at 6:25. These guys did pose for us.

Green Woodhoopoe – I prefer the name red-billed woodhoopoe
This chap has a tantalising call and is quite tricky to find! Today he posed beautifully – Black-backed Puffback
I can’t be sure but from the call I believe this one is a montonous lark

Before long, on the H4-1 we saw a small traffic jam ahead.

The king takes precedence. If he decides to take a nap in the middle of the road then suck it up. You just have to wait.
The Earl managed to make him pay attention
His brother, quite honestly, chose a far more comfortable spot

We had a total of three lion sightings today but one was so far away it would be embarassing to show the photograph. However, with our binoculars we could clearly see five on a buffalo kill. They were under a tree in the Sabie valley.

The other had such a traffic jam around them that we simply weaved our way through and drove on. There were also five there.

We were far more interested when we came across two vultures on a nest.

We couldn’t see any chicks so they’re probably still in the eggs!

At eight o’clock we stopped for a leg-stretch at Nkulu picnic site. It has beautiful views across the river and sometimes the trees hold some surprises.

A Vervet Monkey in a marula tree- eating his own fruit and not stealing for a change.

While looking for another puffback in one of the trees, I spotted a chinspot batis. He pretended to pose but just as I clicked he flew off and hid behind the foliage. I am sure he went off to tell his friends all about this crazy women chasing him with a camera.

The call of the fish eagle always gives me a thrill and we heard one several times. We saw a few of them too but none of the photos are worthy of being displayed here. I am sure the perfect one will present itself soon.

We continued our journey to Lower Sabie rest camp and came across a hyaena. He was pulling at some carrion but took off in the direction opposite than that in which we were travelling. I didn’t think it worth snapping his bottom through a dusty back window.

Instead I’ll show the cute grey duiker that did not run away.

The name duiker is from the Afrikaans word for diver and this is exactly what this small antelope does indeed dive for cover when he is startled. I was surprised to find him calmly lying here, quite unafraid of potential danger.

My favourite animal, the giraffe, never disappoints. He is a natural model and always poses beautifully.

Giraffe can grow as tall as five meters and they live to up to over twenty years.

Before entering the camp we stopped briefly at the famous Sunset Dam where we saw our first hippos and crocodiles of the trip.

None of the hippo were very active today. They simply wallowed in the cool water

A big treat for us was seeing both the male and female Diederick’s cuckoo

Male diederick is more colourful than his mate
The female is pretty in her own right
One of the many yellow-billed storks that reside at the dam
This dead tree supports both the red-billed buffalo-weaver and lesser masked weaver nests.
Lesser-masked weavers

Lower Sabie’s Mug and Bean restaurant overlooks the river and we found a table with a good enough view. I don’t usually like the Mug and Bean or Bug and Mean as I call it but this one is actually quite good. We enjoyed scrambled eggs, bacon and tomato and an excellent cup of coffee.

It was 10:45 and very hot when we started our return journey so there was not much bird or animal activity. Even so we had some interesting encounters.

Ground Hornbill
Young male and female nyala
Saddle-billed stork
Bathing buffalo – they really love to wallow on a hot day
Male Bushbuck – usually solitary and not at all territorial

When we got back to Skukuza, we went to the shop to get some R5 coins for the laundry. I also bought a new sarong as I had forgotten to pack one.

We are camped closest to ablution, laundry and camp kitchen number 6. Unfortunately Laundry 6 has lost its machines and so I had to go to number 7 which is a bit further away – at the tented camp to be exact. The machines take two new R5 coins. The dryer also needs two R5 coins. I don’t think R20 for a load of washing is too extravagant. Within an hour and a half it was all done a dusted. While it was in progress I edited my photos.The Earl had a nap while I did laundry etc, when he awoke we went to the pool for a swim and the decided to go there to Kruger Station for dinner.

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Travel in the time of Covid – Kruger National Park – Day 2 Skukuza to Berg en Dal and back

Yesterday we discovered that the SD card in the Earl’s camera had gone Awol. The park shops do not stock them. Also missing in action was our caravan step-up. We only realised this when we set up camp at our overnight stop, Heins. When we shopped at Pick n Pay yesterday we tried to find one without success. There were also one or two other things that we could do without but would be make life more pleasant so we decided to trek back to Malelane and try the larger Super Spa shopping center where there were more shops to choose from

We left around 6:30ish and the overcast weather turned to quite heavy rain along the way. At first there was not much to see along the H1-1 and H3 roads to Malelane Gate. Of course we greeted the odd group of impala but the wildebeest seemed to have gone on vacation. Here are a few critters that did turn up.

A wet and not very cheerful Tawny Eagle
Equally wet but nicely fluffed up Swainson’s Spurfowl
An elegant giraffe with a dramatic sky behind him

As we passed Afsaal picnic site we reminisced about the leopard we’d seen in 2012 when our grandkids were with us. This leopard is quite often seen along the H3 around Afsaal. About 10 minutes later we saw three cars stopped up ahead.

“Now what can they have spotted,” I wondered. “Giraffe, wildebeest, elephant?”

No something far more exciting.

A rather lazy leopard settling down for a nap
He totally ignored us, closed his eyes and went to sleep

Shortly after this we arrived at Malelane Gate, got our re-entry permit and made our way to town. The rain had let up a bit and by the time we’d finished our shopping it had stopped altogether.

Within the hour we’d got an SD card from a pharmacy, purchased some foodstuffs and ice bricks from Spa, bought a pair of shoes for the Earl and found an inexpensive, plastic, foldable step-up from the Crazy Store! “You’re the best shop ever,” I told the assistant. “We’ve tried everywhere and you’re the only place that knows what we’re even talking about!”

So with everything on the list accomplished we popped over to Wimpy for breakfast and then made our way back to the park.

The temperature rose to from 20 to 27 by the time we reached Berg-en-Dal. We went to reception to make slight changes to our bookings and to see what damage had been done to the restaurant after a recent fire. There was a temporary office as they are busy doing renovations. The restaurant is still closed but the shop is fully functioning. They have an outdoor coffee station where you can order light meals and sit at picnic tables if you so desire.

We then took the Majulu loop to the dam.

These two enjoyed the sunshine
There were quite a few zebra and impala enjoying each others company.
One of the many buffalo that made an appearance
The yellow-billed oxpeckers like to offer their grooming services to buffalo
This grumpy chap has the more common red-billed oxpecker and seems to be saying – hey – you’re not doing your job!

We usually see quite a few red-billed buffalo-weavers but we only got this one whose bill is still pale.
This is the scene that met us at the dam
What’s up Ellie? Hectic party last night?
I just love warthogs! They are so amusing. There were dozens of them around the dam, all having lots of fun
Seen as we drove back – there were lots of elephants around

En route to Afsaal picnic site you can turn down a dirt road to Renosterpan and then drive back again. It’s about 4km each way. “Should we do it?” asked the Earl. “We might not see anything.”

“But then again we might miss something if we don’t!” I replied. Renoster is the Afrikaans word of rhino and as it turned out it was a fitting name indeed.

Relaxing in the midday sun
The buffalo thought it was cooler in the water
This hammerkop insisted on hiding behind the reeds
Eventually this chap got up and allowed his groomers to continue his treatments
There was not much on offer at Afsaal so we settled for giant muffins instead

This monkey thought he’d act like a leopard while he eyed our snacks
A Cape Glossy Starling looking for crumbs
Helmeted Guineafowl are common all over the country and we tend to ignore them but they really are beautiful
A Kurrichane Thrush bade us farewell

From Afsaal we made our way back, spotted more elephants, buffalo and other creatures but these were the most interesting.

This dwarf mongoose is squatting in an abandoned anthill
Crested Francolin
Swainson’s Spurfowl

Altogether it was a most enjoyable day.

Share Your World – 2 November 2020

Here my answers to the questions posed by Sparks this week.

Questions:

Which meal is your favorite: breakfast, lunch, or dinner?

Breakfast is my favourite. By the time we get round to having it, I am hungry enough to really enjoy it. Eggs any style, bacon, fried banana, fried tomato and black mushrooms are the usual ingredients but sometimes just a croissant with ham, avo and black coffee is enough.

Who do you admire most in the world?

There are many people whom I admire but the one that stands out is Sir David Attenborough. What an amazing career he has had. And to be honest – it’s his voice. I just adore his voice.

With the obvious restrictions in place, what do you regret not doing in the last year?

I have no regrets. If Lockdown hadn’t happened I would have travelled more but instead I stayed at home for an extended time and finished things that had been put off for years.


GRATITUDE SECTION:  (Optional)

Now that we have to think twice before travelling I am grateful for all the opportunities that I have had to visit distant shores. Who knows when travel will be as simple again.

Travelling in the time of Covid – Kruger National Park – Day 1- Skukuza

Yesterday we arrived at Heins Farm Resort at about 3:30 pm. It is situated right on the N11 just outside Ermelo so is a convenient overnight stay on the way to KNP. There are cabins and camping sites which are very neat but the ablutions could do with an upgrade. The kitchen facilities are also very basic but we enjoyed our stay there. There is no restaurant but they do have a hall with a bar where you can go for sundowners. They also cater for functions and when we arrived they were preparing for a 21st birthday party.

Our campsie

It was a tad chilly from 4 pm onwards and when we woke this morning it was raining. We left at 5:30 am and at times drove through mist but when we got to Malelane it had cleared up although it was still overcast. We had a Wimpy breakfast and shopped at Pick ‘n Pay before entering at Malelane Gate just after 10.

Approaching Malelane Gate
Elation as we enter Malelane Gate

Check in involved sanitising, having temperatures taken and filling in a Covid form at an outside desk before going into reception. It all went quickly and efficiently and within 20 minutes we were driving towards Skukuza. What joy to be in my favourite place in the world again.

There was still a way to go to Skukza. As we were towing a caravan we stuck to the tar roads and did not take any loops or diversions. It limits you from getting the best viewing as you can’t stop suddenly or reverse into a better position so we try to get to camp as quickly as possible so we can unhitch and get settled and then devote attention to seeking the wildlife.

Skukuza Gate

We always try to guess what our first sighting will be – usually it’s impala but today the Earl called out – warthog! And there on the side of the road was a mother with tiny piglets. However, they were not interested in posing for Adventures into Retirement! Other creatures I wished to feature were a little reluctant too but I wouldn’t take no for an answer.

Wildebeest too relaxed to bother
A klipspringer all high and mighty
A giraffe too engrossed in browsing

As we approached Kwagga Waterhole we saw an Egyptian geese and were going to just drive on when the Earl said, “Elephant approaching” and there in the distance a whole troop, with trunks in the air came lolloping down for a drink.

This lot couldn’t wait to get to the water!
At least these girls had a zest for life

We arrived at Skukuza at about 12:30 and check in went very smoothly. The campsite was quite full but we found a suitable site and within the hour we were nicely set up for our eight-night stay here.

Last year the pathway to the ablutions had potholes but we were delighted to see that these have been fixed. The ablutions are clean and functioning well too.

There was a chorus of bird song once we’d settled down for a refreshing drink and some were polite enough to sit still and greet us.

The collared sunbird was not easy to snap
But the blue waxbill was very photogenic
And the dark-capped bulbul showed off constantly

Later in the afternoon we took a short drive to Lake Panic Hide. There was a sign on the gate indicating that no more than 10 people were allowed in at a time. And sure enough the benches had huge crosses on the sections that were to kept bum free! The lake has suffered due to drought and the activity which is usually very lively and exciting has dwindled considerably. We didn’t even see the weavers who are usually very active at their nests which overhang the water. After three quarters of an hour we had enjoyed all that was there.

Lake Panic
Egyptian Goose showing his lovely colours
Blacksmith Lapwing
African Black Crake
Female Pied Kingfisher\
Male Pied Kingfisher
Green-backed Heron
Squacco Heron
Water Thick-knees – Spot the baby

There was also a fish eagle and a few jacanas about but they were too far away to photograph. The hippos were conspicuous by their absence.

At Heins yesterday we met another two caravanners who are also now at Skukuza and while our dinner was cooking we invited them to join us for sundowners. Although the day had been cool with temperature not rising above 24 degrees C, the evening was still quite warm. After a lovely chat our friends left and we enjoyed the Romosca Chicken which was done to perfection. And now as I write I can hear the laughter of hyaena. What a privilege to be here and to hear the sounds of the bush at night. A bad day in Kruger beats a good day at home every time.

Travelling in the time of Covid – Visiting Family

After leaving Camdeboo we travelled through the Eastern Cape to Kokstad in Kwa-Zulu Natal and spent two nights with our rural family.

Caravanners and campers, I know will want more details about the Camdeboo Rest Camp. Apologies for the lack of photographs of our site but we went to town for dinner so I did not get round to taking a photo around the fire! Each site has its own wooden picnic table and of course a braai.

As I mentioned before the ablutions are spotless but the pressure in the shower is not very strong. Remember, this is a drought stricken province.

The camp kitchen has two wash up basins, a microwave and a freezer for the use of campers.

There is no shop or restaurant at Camdeboo.

We must have brought some of our abundant rain from the Western Cape as when we awoke on Thursday morning, we heard the pitter patter of rain drops on the caravan windows. As we travelled, the showers were light and it was still quite warm, but the further we went the lower the temperature became and thunder and lightening accompanied the rain.

We stopped at Kai Kai in Steynsburg for breakfast. In the days of travel with our kids and grandkids this was our usual stop as there is little other option along the route to Kokstad. It is a B&B which offers breakfast to those hungry travellers passing through as well.

The R56 is well maintained and we did not have to play dodge the potholes but the odd cow and goat gave us a few scares. This route also takes you through a number of rural towns which are busy with traffic and rural people dashing across the street. Miraculously nobody seems to get run over.

A busy rural town
Typical Eastern Cape scene

We refueled in Maclear. The Earl was suffering from an attack of gout so I asked the attendant to direct me to the nearest pharmacist. Luckily it was just across the street. I became one of the car dodging predestinations and was pleasantly surprised to find no queues and a very pleasant assistant behind the counter. He knew just the remedy for my ailing husband’s malady – one Milan Diclofenac taken with two no-name white pills – something from the witch doctor? Cost – R48 and they worked beautifully.

It started raining as we approached Matatiele and stormed all the way to Kokstad. The thunder and lightening was scary for these two Capies⚡️🌨

It was a joy to catch up with the Kokstad Clan. Although our nephew and nieces were busy with work and other commitments they popped in to visit and gave us a warm and happy welcome.

Ann’s kids Caitlyn and James saw the caravan arriving from their farm which overlooks the one we stayed at and immediately hopped on their little motor bikes and rode down to Granny’s to greet us,

The Earl engaging with the great nephews and great niece
Our niece with her miracle babies now 2 years old

This morning we left in inclement weather. The road between Kokstad and Howick was a nightmare. We played dodge the potholes while struggling through mist and rain. It is also beyond my comprehension how drivers can travel without their headlights on. The reckless driving, speeding and overtaking on solid white lines with no regard to their own and other road users safety is also baffling.

Our breakfast stop in Howick was The Wimpy. It was at a mall so parking the caravan was easy. When travelling we often choose Wimpy as their breakfasts are lovely and inexpensive. The coffee is not half bad either ☕️ and it comes with a delicious cinnamon biscuit/cookie.

I am writing this post on my I-pad as we travel to Heins Farm Resort in Ermelo where we will spend the night. Tomorrow we enter The Park. Watch this space😄

Travel in the time of Covid – Day 3 Camdeboo

We were packed up and ready to go by 7:00 am this morning. The weather was warm and became hotter as we drove through the dry Karoo.

Our first stop was for breakfast in Oudtshoorn where we also refueled. We have of course travelled through this town before but the restaurant we wanted to go to was according to Google closed as a result of Covid! Using Trip Adviser as a guide we followed the directions to another not knowing whether we would be able to park the caravan easily so when I spotted Brule Cafe, I told Earl to stop as there was a double parking available just beyond it.

Brûlée Cafe

It was a good choice. During these pandemic times there are protocols you have to stick to. Wear your mask, sanitise, have your temperature taken and enter your details on a form. We’re so into it now that it’s done automatically.

Awesome coffee @ only R10
Awesome breakfast R130 for 2 including coffees

The next part of our journey went smoothly and we arrived at Camdeboo just after one o’clock. Once again we had to go through all the protocols. We were given a code to enter at the gate but a helpful attendant did it for us and gave us perfect directions to the campsite. Each site is very private, hedged off with thorn trees. There is not much shade but this is to be expected in the Karoo! As we’re here for just one night we did not set up the canopy but we did unhitch as we wanted to go on a game drive. It was hot!

The first thing I did was check out the ablutions. Our campsite – 12 – is next door the the ablution block and camp kitchen. Everything is pristine. Only two people at a time are allowed to use the facilities. There is sanitiser on tap and we really had no complaints about anything.

We went for a drive just after three and were really impressed with what we saw. This is not a Big 5 game reserve. The only thing that disappointed us was not seeing the surricates – but hey – we’ve seen them before and we’ll see them again! We saw everything else on offer.

Eland
Tortoise
Blesbok
Zebra

Springbok
Gemsbok
Black Wildebeest

We returned to camp around five and I went to have a shower and get ready for dinner. As we’re only here for one night we decided to eat in town. The main gate of the park remains open till 10 pm as they do not have a shop or a restaurant.

A few years ago we stayed overnight in town with two of our daughters and two grandsons. Our restaurant of choice was Pioneers. I’d forgotten the name but on browsing through Trip Advisor I recognised it immediately . It had been good then and it did not disappoint this time either. The manageress came to check that all was well and was very friendly.

The menu is varied and I chose Keto calamari which came with a generous helping of vegetables and a salad! The Earl had curried offel and samp (Samp is an African food consisting of dried corn kernels that have been stamped and chopped until broken, but not as finely ground as mealie(corn)-meal or mielie (corn) rice). He has never actually eaten it before but thought it was about time he did!

A lovely restaurant displaying the history of Graaff-Reinet

Much to the Earl’s delight, a cute cat appeared and made friends with him.

Travel in the time of Covid – Day 2 Warmwaterberg

We could not lie in late this morning as the sun rises early and the weather is perfect. It is, however, still quite cool in the evenings – well to South Africans it’s cool. If you come from cooler climes you might think it’s just perfect.

After our morning coffee we took to the warm waters and then went to the restaurant for breakfast which we had on the deck. The Earl had an omelette which was deliciou and I had scrambled eggs, bacon and tomato – just superb.

The day was spent walking around the campsite, watching the birds, swimming and just relaxing. I know that the campers and caravanners reading my blog want to know exactly what the facilities are like so I took a few photographs. Also here is a link to Warmwaterberg

One of the cabins you can hire if you don’t camp
The Camp Site
Another view of the main camping site
The loos are rustic and have a washand basin outside each
You can use as much water as you like for a deep roman bath or a shower
Peacocks are all over the camp. They are beautiful if a little noisy!

There are lovely walks you can take around the camp if you are feeling energetic. We have done the 7km one into the mountains in the past but did not do so this time. It was enough to take a few short walks around the camps and to watch the birds that enjoy the succulents and other indigenous plants that grow abundantly

Karoo Thrush
This beautiful hibiscus attracts the sunbirds. I am not sure which sunbird this is. Probably a greater doubled collared female or non breeding male.
Cape White-eye (Witogie)
Male Cape Canary
Female Cape Canary
Taking a bath
Long-billed Crombec
Bikes begging to be ridden
It’s a beautiful place
Most unusual and really stunning
The plants are stunning – the bird agree
The pools are really lovely
The Earl and me enjoying the waters

Once again we had dinner at the restaurant. The Earl had the ribs and I had the lasagne. The views across the valley – priceless!

Travel in the Time of Covid – Gecko on the Road again.

In the five years that we have been retired and living in Struisbaai this is the longest time that we have stayed at home! But today we dusted off our Gecko off-road caravan and hit the road again. Part of the fun is the preparation but there is nothing like that thrill of anticipation on the first morning of a long trip. Today began a journey that is to last about two months.

We left Struisbaai at 10 am in slightly drizzly weather. Our route will take to Warmwaterberg for two nights and then through the Karoo to Camdeboo National Park for one night. From there we have an eight-hour journey to Kokstad where we will stay with relatives for two nights. Another one night stay in Ermelo and then into Kruger National Park on 1 November. We will spend 34 days at various camps in Kruger before leaving via Punda Maria Gate and making our way back to Kokstad where we will spend a week to 10 days. From there we go to the kids in Plettenberg Bay to spend the Christmas holidays. We should be back in Struisbaai around 6 January.

Warmwaterberg is a very pleasant two and half hour drive and includes a stunning mountain pass which is currently sporting an array of colourful wild flora. The hot springs are set on large farm between Barrydale and Ladismith on Route 62

We visit this spa several times each year usually with the caravan but we have tried all the modes of accommodation on offer. Bath House 3 and 4 are the best non camping accommodation at this resort.  If you don’t camp, then I’d recommend you ask for those.  The other accommodation is less than satisfactory.

I blogged about this spa here and here. This one is about the luxury accommodation and about the picturesque town of Barrydale. If you want more information on this lovely place, they are worth a read.

We have a caravan site just across from the pools.   In the past we have stayed in the caravan park further away and it is shady and the sites of quite a good size.  

If you want crystal clear water then this is not the place for you.  The water is completely natural and is brown. The baths are cleaned on alternate days so while one is full the other is emptied and fills during the morning and is full by the afternoon.

The spring is 44 degrees C at the sauce.  The water is rich in iron and has health benefits when consumed.  The taste is very pleasant.    The water in the ablutions is from the spring and naturally hot.  

There is a small shop with limited supplies on the premises. The restaurant is lovely. You can sit on the patio outside and enjoy panoramic views across the valley. The food too is inexpensive and of excellent quality. This evening we dined there. The Earl had Lasagna and I had Bobotie both served with the most delicious vegetables. We also had a bottle of sauvignon blanc The total cost of the meal was R270. That would be €14 or £ 12.70 or $16,60. That’s hard to beat even in other places in South Africa.

The weather here is decidedly warmer than Struisbaai as it is in the Karoo which is semi-desert -hot and dry.

Share Your World 26 October 2020

Here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World

What’s the tallest building you’ve been to the top of?

I don’t actually know. I think it was one in Sydney the name of which I forget. I have been to the top of Table Mountain though. It’s not that high but does sometimes get snow on it. I’ve been up in the cable car several times. It’s really fun and worth the fortune you pay to go up!

What do you do to keep fit?

My routine changes from time to time. During Lockdown I did 15 minutes yoga and 30 minutes Walk@Home aerobics. I also tried to get in a short walk outdoors.

Recently I’ve mixed it up and do a long walk of about an hour some days and the walk@ home and yoga on others.

I have never played competitive sport, run marathons or anything like that. I exercise for health reasons only. For years I jogged between 5 and 8 km per day. I’ve also belonged to gyms and done the circuit training thing. My best way of keeping fit was playing squash. I really wish I’d not given that up but all my partners dropped out one by one and I was not a competitive club player so I gave up after about 10 years of organising my own games with friends. On second thoughts maybe it is good that I stopped. It’s a fast game and best left to the young.

What’s your jack-o-lantern carved to look like?

I thought they all looked the same? Clearly I know nothing about Halloween. Apologies to my American friends. I have never carved a jack-o-lantern.

Do you have hope or have you lost it?

I certainly do have hope even though things seem hopeless at times. So far life has worked out pretty well for me. Politics to me is hopeless so I tend to ignore it and just get on with my life. I let my husband do the worrying and he does tend to bring me down to reality from time to time. At least one of us has to keep his feet on the ground.

GRATITUDE QUESTION:

Feel free to share something you’re grateful for!  Images and photos or poems, essays or free writing (stream of consciousness) pieces are all acceptable!  AND you don’t have to do this part, it’s always optional!

I am very grateful for the husband I have and the family I’ve landed up in. I told this story to my grandsons when they were quite small.

“Grandpa needed a mommy for his girls and I needed a daddy for my baby so he asked me if I’d marry him and we’d help each other look after all three kids.”

Jay all of seven exclaimed, “Lucky for you hey, Gran!”

I was totally taken aback. Weren’t they the lucky ones? “No,” he explained, “If grandpa hadn’t come to get you, you wouldn’t have all of us!”

And he is so right! I couldn’t ask for a lovelier family – all of ours and the entire extended lot as well!

Lucky Gran with her delightful gang of kids and grandkids

Share Your World 28 September 2020

Here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks.

Where do you feel most at home?  Please be more specific than “at home, doh” please. It could be a room in your home, a person, a location…  

I really like this question because there are lots of places where I feel at home. There are also many places where I don’t feel at home and it’s all to do with the people and the atmosphere in these places. I instinctively know when I am not welcome. I feel ‘bad’ vibes in places and can’t wait to get away from such environments. There are people who I know well yet I still don’t feel comfortable in their homes. Then there are plenty of places where I feel relaxed and totally at home. I feel at home wherever my family is even though there are times we don’t get on. That doesn’t seem to make a difference at all. In my family we are all totally welcome in each other’s homes. There have been times that I have found myself in a total stranger’s house and yet felt completely welcome and at home because that stranger is a kindred spirit.

Then there are the places that are really special that have nothing to do with four walls. The moment I enter the Kruger National Park, I feel completely at home. Being there is good for my soul. It’s my happy place and no other place can compare. I love my own home, I love Struisbaai and I feel totally at home when visiting Cape Town where I grew up but nothing compares to the absolute joy I experience when I reside in my caravan in The Kruger National Park!

Celebrating my birthday at Mopani in Kruger National Park –

Would you rather ride a bike, ride a horse, or drive a car?     

I used to enjoy riding a bike but I’ve given it up. I can’t risk falling off anymore. Horse riding was also fun and I did ride a few times as a child and then again as an adult. My most memorable ride was galloping down a Wild Coast beach on a hired steed with a horse-riding friend of mine. I was forty years old and have never ridden since.

Bike Riding with my grandsons – a-long-time-ago

So I suppose I will have to choose the last one even though I seldom do that anymore either! The Earl does most of the driving and I don’t even own a car anymore.

What song would you sing on “Karaoke Night” (if you were forced to do so)?    

The Earl and I have two songs – Lady in Red – which he can sing at the Karaoke night and The Power of Love which I’ll take. I am not a singer but I think I could lipsync convincingly.

University or life experience, which do you feel best prepares you for life? 

 Definitely life experience. Of course university is useful but plenty of people get by and do very well without a degree or a diploma. I believe a work ethic is far more important. I also know plenty of well-educated people who have not done much in their lives. Then there are those who have been hugely successful in spite of poor beginnings. I definitely admire people who just get out there and do things without making excuses. Also people who’ve had it tough in life tend to make good in the end. I think of people in my own family who have made things happen for themselves without depending on their parents or grandparents . Too many people blame their circumstances for their lack of success. Having a dream is all very well and I certainly encourage people to go for it. But if for some reason you can’t achieve it then for heaven’s sake find something else to do. There is also nothing wrong with not having an unrealistic dream. We also need ordinary people to do ordinary things. Stand out if you can otherwise fit in and get on with it.

IT’S AN ATTITUDE – GRATITUDE!  (Participation Always Optional Of Course)

What are you grateful for?

Funny you should ask. The Earl and I were going through old photographs. What memories they conjured up and looking back we realised how lucky we are to have had a variety of amazing experiences in our lives. We found a little card from our grandson which read, Grandpa, you didn’t ask for a grandchild like me – you just got lucky!

Yes indeed we are very lucky and we wouldn’t change a thing.