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Some fun questions

These questions come from Salted Caramel  but I decided to join in after reading Melanie’s Answers

Nope, no award.   But some intriguing questions from Dr. Tanya!   She invited anyone who wanted to, to answer those.   I am going to do just that.

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Dr. Tanya’s Leibster Questions

What is your biggest pet peeve?

I’m fairly tolerant but it annoys me when people put other people down to make themselves look better.

Where did you get your name?

I was the firstborn granddaughter and according to Greek tradition I should have been named after my Paternal Grandmother but my parents didn’t like that idea at all.  But out of respect they decided to compromise by giving me an anglicized Greek name – Helen (Ελενι – Eleni)- an anglicized version of my paternal grandmother’s name for my second  – Mary (Μαρια -Maria) and then so as not to upset my Maternal Grandmother I was given her name – Edwina – as a third!  Put a Greek surname at the end of these and you have quite a mouthful! As a child I was embarrassed by all my unnecessary names and swore that my own would only get one – but I lost that battle and my poor child is saddled with a second name that she dislikes intensely!  Fortunately, she is happy with the one we actually call her.

If you wanted to change your name, what would you choose?

I don’t think I would change now but when thinking of baby names for my daughter I favoured Robyn, Jane, Caroline and Nikki.  I ended up choosing Lauren as it was the only one her father and I could agree on.

What was your favorite TV show as a kid?

When I was a kid there was no Television in South Africa – that only came in 1976 – three years before my daughter was born.  However, we listened to stories on the radio.  I still remember Squad Cars, City Hospital, Inspector Carr investigates and many other very exciting ones.  Every weekday evening at 7:15 there was a serial called – No Place to Hide – a sci-fi drama that kept us glued to the radio for 15 minutes before we sat down to dinner.

Do you have any weird habits?

I don’t think its weird but other people do.  I leave a bit of coffee or tea at the bottom of my cup every time I have one.  I’ve done it all my life and can’t bring myself to drink that last sip.   I think it’s because in the olden days there might have been tea leaves at the bottom of the cup. I only started drinking coffee when I was an adult but it carried over to that too; perhaps because of coffee grounds? I drain hot chocolate to the bitter end.

Do you like Autumn scents/tastes?

I love everything about Autumn

What is your favorite holiday and why?

I’m not crazy about the commercialization of holidays but I do enjoy Christmas because it brings the family together and we usually have a great time.  As we’re in the southern hemisphere it falls slap bang in the middle of the long school vacation.  This annoyed me when I was working as it meant planning trips away around it.  There were a few times that we simply went away and did Christmas without the rest of the family.

Do you prefer writing longhand (old school) or typing?

How I wish I could have had an iPad or laptop when I was at school as my handwriting was not my greatest asset.  Even as a teacher my board work was pretty bad.   I eventually learned Italic and very much enjoyed writing cards etc using this skill.

I very seldom write longhand these days.

Cable or Netflix?

Television in this country is not that fantastic – we have the equivalent of cable call DSTV with dozens of channels.  It’s great for watching sport and The News and I enjoy Animal Planet and Nat Geo Wild.  We have Netflix and I enjoy binge-watching series like Grace and Frankie on that.

If money didn’t matter, what would you do with your life?

Probably use my money to help others while still enjoying the luxury of having millions left over to enjoy life.  I would travel to more exotic places than I do now and stay in fabulous accommodation – but wait – I love my caravan – I’d miss that so I would probably still take my game reserve holidays that way.   But when travelling abroad I’d go First Class.

What is your favorite thing about yourself?

Well, maybe those who know me won’t agree, but I think I’m fun to be with.

Do you treat others better than yourself?

I think I do. But I also take care of myself.  Even when I was super-busy I would take time for myself, get regular exercise, have a date night and get a facial or a massage from time to time.

Do you give second chances?

Yes. But when a relationship is toxic I don’t continue with it.

Have you ever met someone famous?

Yes, I have – well she’s famous here in South Africa.  We were at the same venue on a holiday and got on very well with her.  We didn’t keep up with each other after that though.  I also met one of our very well known Satirists after attending one of his shows.  My hubby was in his class in Primary School and he pretended to remember.

Do you follow trends or start them?

Neither.   I do my own thing and have never gone with the crowd or followed the latest trends. –  As a teenager, I was very awkward.

When was the last time you surprised yourself?

I actually surprise myself quite a lot.   I’m not academically gifted so when I solve a problem on the computer, for example, I’m really chuffed with myself.

What’s something you enjoy the old fashioned way?

I actually LOVE technology and would not want to go back but I do enjoy a real book or magazine to read.

Do you remember The Powerpuff Girls? If so, who was your favourite?

I only know about the above because I taught small children.  I have no idea what their names were.

Do you have a favourite flower?

My favourite flowers are vygies.  They come in just about every colour possible and are pretty easy to grow in the Overberg where I live.

Do you find writing therapeutic?

Yes, I do.

What was the best question you’ve ever been asked?

Shall we go to the Kruger National Park for the holidays?

Which tongue-twister is the hardest for you? For example, She sells seashells on the seashore! 

Actually, I don’t think I’m too bad at them. But his one is quite tricky

Betty Botter bought some butter
But she said the butter’s bitter
If I put it in my batter, it will make my batter bitter
But a bit of better butter will make my batter better
So ‘twas better Betty Botter bought a bit of better butter

Share your World 7 October 2019

Here is my contribution to this week’s Share Your World

QUESTIONS:

Social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat) a good thing, a bad thing or a mixture of both?

I think all these are great if you use them intelligently. Nobody is forcing you to share your every action or thought. Nor do you have to read absolutely everything that is shared by others. Personally, I love Facebook as it keeps me in touch with people I would long ago have lost contact with. I don’t use the other apps much but they’re also fun. My granddaughter is not on Facebook.  I encouraged her to open an account and this was her reply. – “Really Gran? It’s for old people! My generation uses Instagram!” And here was me thinking I was so up to date!

Parents need to be aware of what is going on with their children and modern ones have their work cut out for them controlling their kids’ social media.   It’s a matter of teaching them how to use the apps correctly.  I know plenty who seem to have the right balance.

Are you camera shy or do you pose for the camera with confidence?

I used to hate being photographed. I thought I was not photogenic. Then when I started being the one who took the photos I found that those who ‘spoke’ to the camera were more photogenic than those who shied away.  Now I at least pretend to be confident in front of the lense and ‘talk’ to the camera too.  It has helped ever so slightly.  Photographs are memories and I do want to be remembered by my descendants when I die.

Is there anything you’ve kept from younger years for sentimental reasons alone?

I do have mementos given to me by pupils and/or their parents that I will never part with. I also have paintings and ornaments that I inherited. And I’ve kept Birthday and Mother’s Day cards that my kids have given me.  

Do you like to decorate for different holidays?

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If I am at home for Christmas then I put up and decorate a tree. We are usually at our daughter’s and the decor is there. I like to be sure the table is set appropriately. At Easer I hide eggs even though the kids are all over 14! We don’t do Halloween to the same degree as the USA so no decorating for that. However, the sweets are ready just in case trick and treaters come to the door.

GRATITUDE 

Do you feel you’re a strong person character-wise?   

If a strong character is one who is loyal, has integrity and a mind of her own – then Yes I am a person of strong character.

Also, if you do have a gratitude thought or picture you’d like to share, please feel free!   The world can always use more positive vibes!

In January 1999 our daughter brought her two young sons, aged 4 months and 18 months to live with us and we helped her raise them.   After a deep discussion with my oldest grandson about why this happened and how it might have turned out differently had a Judge made a different decision regarding their custody, he said, “Well, Gran, I had an awesome childhood!”  And for this, I am truly grateful.   What else could a grandmother wish for?

I have shared these photos before – but they are just so appropriate for this question that here they are again.

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Gran with her boys when they were little

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A re-take with them all grown up sometime later!

 

 

October Photo a Day Challenge

Citysonnet’s prompt for today is Pets

We no longer have pets but two white rabbits turned up in our garden a year ago.   We found the owner who told us they were supreme escape artists and not to worry about them.  They go where they will go! So are they really pets?   We built them a hutch and put out food but otherwise don’t worry about them and they come and go as they please.  We enjoy their visits but don’t have to worry about them when we travel.  When we return, they’re in the garden within a day or two.

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Imagine our shock when we first saw these two intruders

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They soon made themselves at home –

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They believe the veggie patch is there for them

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The flowers taste good too!

 

Stream of Consciousness Saturday – 5 October 2019

Thanks to Linda for this week’s Stream of Consciousness Prompt.

The prompt for this week’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “-tast-.” Find a word that contains “tast” and use it in your post. Enjoy!

What a fantastic time we are having with our family in Plettenberg Bay.  The public school holidays are over and our daughter returned to school on Tuesday but the grandchildren have an extra week as they both attend Independent Schools. On Wednesday we took the kids to their dental appointments and on Friday to have their eyes tested.  Simon is fine on both counts but Shan needs some dental work and a new prescription for her spectacles.

The optician appointment was quite early and we made it from the farm with just two minutes to spare.  Afterwards, we went to The Lookout Beach Restaurant for a tasty breakfast.   I was hoping the weather would be warmer but it was a tad chilly,  However, we still sat outdoors and enjoyed the view.   I had ‘All you ‘avo’ wanted” which included two poached eggs, bacon, tomato and smashed Avo on toast.  I just love the taste of avo and bacon together.

The kids warned us before we left that we had to be back in time for the screening of The World Cup Rugby game – The Springboks were to play Italy.   “We must be home by 12:30 – It will be a catastrophe if we miss it!” we were warned.

I assured them that we had plenty of time but didn’t realise that breakfast would take as long as it did and then we had to do a few chores in town.
Finally, all was done and the kids yelled – Go, fast Grandpa – put your foot down!   But I insisted that he take it easy on the dirt road – rather get there late than dead!
You could taste their excitement as we skidded to a halt at exactly 12:44 – the game began at 12:45 – not 12:30 but Shan wanted to have some buffer time. They were singing the national anthems as we entered the lounge.

Dad had also just arrived home as he certainly wasn’t going to miss this very important game!   And what an exciting game it was – the cheering and yelling from our small group of supporters reverberated throughout the house and there was much jubilation when the final whistle blew and the Bokke had won 49 to 3!

Lauren had gone to school dressed in green and with a Springbok scarf around her neck.  The entire school had gathered in the hall to watch the match.  She came home with a throbbing headache.  “the kids didn’t stop screaming throughout the game,” she complained.  But she was thrilled that we’d won!   Ruby is the national religion of this country!

The weather today was awesome and we had another visitor staying over.  There were also two other guests for lunch.  They were there to hunt bush pig but found an abandoned baby.  What would they do?  “We can’t kill a baby,” they said.  Instead, they took it home to raise.   What will they do when it grows up?  I have no idea!  Perhaps it will go to a sanctuary.

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So what was for lunch?  A tasty braai of course.   It’s the national food of every red-blooded South African.   And the braai master? The inimitable Earl.

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October Photo a Day challenge – 5 October – Birds

Today we are challenged to post photos of birds

Thanks, citysonnet – I am a great bird lover. I’ve chosen to post a few of the more dramatic South African birds today.

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Ground Hornbill with prey

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Wattled Lapwing

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Saddle-billed Stork

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Red-crested Korhaan

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Goliath Heron

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African Darter

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Black-collared Barbet

 

 

Share Your World 30 September 2019

Here is my response to the questions asked by Melanie below

QUESTIONS:

Earlier this week Rory asked a question that I found so interesting, I thought I’d share it.  Another question, similar to this one was asked in August, but this one is unique.

If confronted with a violent crime against a single individual in progress (severe beating, rape, assault) do you try to do something about it (phone authorities or confront the criminal, stop the crime) or do you figure it’s none of your business and walk or drive on by?  Worse (to me) would you record the crime for social media use without doing anything else? 

If someone attacked a person I was with, I’d probably instinctively confront the attacker. If I came across an incident I would call the police or rally others to help.

Recording the incident would be a good idea for evidence – not for social media.  The problem is, does one think to do it at the time?!

Okay now we got the heavy stuff out of the way, let’s get to some less stressful questions.

If someone asked to be your apprentice and learn all that you know, what would you teach them?

At school, I often had a student-teacher with me in the classroom and while he/she was there I would always tell them why I was doing things the way that I did – even if they didn’t ask.  I hope some good rubbed off!
But this question I’m guessing is about life-skills.   These are the things I try to pass on to my grandchildren.  I

  • Keep a diary even if it’s only a sentence a day or a quick summary of your week.  Write down how you feel and what you do – it will be interesting to look back on later in life.   I have journalled on and off for many years and it’s fun to go back and see what I did on this day 20 years ago!  Also, take lots of photographs and keep them in orderly files and label them well.
  • Keep up with good friends.   Don’t neglect your girlfriends/boyfriends when you start a serious relationship.
  • Keep conflicts with siblings to a minimum. Family feuds are just not worth it.  It’s almost impossible to get over a broken relationship with a sibling. Your shared history bonds you too closely.
  • Work hard and play hard.  Keep a healthy balance in your life.
  • It’s all very well to Follow your Dream but you also have to make a living so if you want to become a rock star don’t neglect to find something else to do if that doesn’t work out!  Find something to do so that you don’t rely on others to support you.
  • Listen to your parents’ and grandparents’ advice.  They know you well, love you unconditionally and want you to be happy.  They may be wrong but they’re more likely to be right, so consider carefully what they’re trying to tell you.

First, think of a product. Now, what would be the absolute worst brand name for one of those products?

I just don’t know – but I have named a restaurant The Bug and Mean because their staff bug me and I think they’re mean.

What ridiculous and untrue, yet slightly plausible, theories can you come up with for the cause of common ailments like headaches or cavities?

Crabby children cause headaches and aches in other parts of the body too.  This is because their carers can’t wrap their heads around their problems fast enough causing the blood vessels to clog up and press against the temples causing severe pain.


GRATITUDE:

If you’d like to, please share a photo or an example of gratitude that you have.  Thanks!  🙂

I am grateful for the time I can spend on the farm with my grandchildren. Nothing can beat these beautiful surroundings. My grandson fishes in the dam right in front of the house while my granddaughter plays the guitar and sings ballads on the lawn. Bliss!