JustJoJan and One Liner Wednesday – Grateful

Today’s JusJoJan prompt is doubling with One-Liner Wednesday. The word to use is Grateful.

Every day is a gift. One more time I can enjoy a sunrise, hear the birds singing in my garden, and have the next-door cats come in for a cuddle. It’s another day to begin a new adventure, to talk to loved ones and create something special even if it is only the evening meal.

I am grateful that today I got to see the excitement on a six-year-olds face as she started Grade 1 on this first day of the school year. When we arrived to collect her she ran straight out the door to greet us. Mom followed all giggles saying she’d been up since dawn! My heart was full!

Proudly dressed in her new school uniform and more than ready for her first day of formal education!

JusJoJan Variety Tuesday 16 January 2024

I am starting this blog an hour before 16 January ends so I hope it is in time – it’s earlier in some parts of the world and later in others! Anyway the prompt word is from John today and it is “Variety”

Variety is the Spice of Life. Boring people have no variety in their lives. They are not adventurous and do not seek out new experiences. Perhaps they feel secure in their safe cocoons eating the same food, seeing the same people, and never trying anything new. Many years ago a colleague of mine was going through a stressful time and mentioned that she’d love to go away for a relaxing weekend. So I offered her and her husband a free weekend at our holiday home just two hours away. She discussed this with him but he said, No thank you because it was too much effort to pack a bag and drive to a destination he would feel unfamiliar in. Then he would have to pack up after two days and drive home again. I was horrified. Did he not understand that the drive there would provide a variety of different scenes along the way. They would be able to stop, get out, explore, have a coffee at a quaint little farm stall, and then move on again. Then once at the destination, there would be the beach, different birds to watch, a lighthouse to climb, the list goes on. 

I find it amazing too that some folk won’t even add a bit of variety to their diet. The same old fare is oh-so boring. Why not add some spice, a vegetable you’ve never tried before a completely new food. We love sashimi and I have offered this treat to many people, some who immediately accept and others who say they would certainly never eat raw fish! When I ask if they have ever tried it the answer is always, No and I never will! Okay fine – your loss. For ages, I tried to get a close friend to try sashimi and finally after a year she gave in, and guess what – she loved it. 

Sometimes I think having a bit of variety in what you do, where you go, what you eat, who you see etc is healthy. You needn’t change your entire lifestyle but do try something new from time to time. You might find your depression lifting. You might find you’ve been missing out on something you thought you would hate. 

We live in a small fishing village and it is so easy to slip into a mundane routine but we make a point of doing a variety of activities. Recently we have put a couple of our rooms on Air B&B which means we meet a variety of guests both local and foreign and hosting them is proving to be great fun.

Judy’s Number Game – 125

Today Judy has challenged us to find photographs numbered 125

I managed to find a few in my archives – all quite old. Thanks for the challenge, Judy.

A Caracal in Kgalagadi National Park 2010
Southern Black Korhaan on the West Coast 2006
Grey Heron with a frog for lunch – False Bay Ecology Park 2007
2008 Addo Elephant Park

Share Your World Monday 15 January 2024

Here is my contribution to this week’s SYW from pensitivity100

1. Do you use an air freshener in your home? If so, do you prefer a solid gel, spray, timed release, potpourri or something else?

I use an air freshener spray in the bathroom. 

Sometimes I use a diffuser in the living area. You place a few drops of essential oil in water and the diffuser breaks them down into smaller particles and disperses them into the air giving your home a pleasant aroma. The oils are supposed to be calming too. 

2When good weather permits, do you open your windows to let in the fresh air?

Yes, all our windows are open during the summer months. We open the windows at the entrance of the house and also the sliding door that opens onto our back garden – this gives a lovely through draft which keeps the house cool.

3.  With the extreme variants in weather these days, do you feel the cold in the Winter months?

I have found that winters get colder every year. I am not sure that temperatures are actually dropping or whether age is preventing me from dealing with cold. 

At the moment it is summer in South Africa. I find that the warmest months these days are from January to the end of March. I prefer the heat to the cold.

4.  Which would you prefer………..
to curl up in front of a log fire or log burner, turn the heating up, or go to bed early with extra blankets

I really enjoy a wood-burning stove during winter. We usually light our in the early afternoon and then go to bed early. We have an electric blanket and a down duvet. The blanket is switched off once the bird has warmed up.

Gratitude:
From time to time, I find some wonderful Memes on other blogging sites and I will include them here. Forgive me if I cannot remember where I first saw them, but thank you.

Great meme. Wouldn’t it be great if we could all be like that toward each other?

JusJoJan24 – Craft – Monday 15 January 2024

Today’s prompt, the word ‘craft’, for JusJoJan comes from Astrid. 

Many images jumped into my mind when I read what today’s prompt was. Perhaps it’s because we are planning a trip that visions of planes and ships and craft of that sort appeared in my head.

Normally, I would think first of craft as something to do with your hands. I have always had a problem with fine motor skills. Writing, drawing, sewing, etc were always a challenge. And yet I enjoyed them all – except for drawing! I struggled in sewing classes at school – yes in the olden days sewing was a compulsory subject in primary school. I also battled to learn to knit. But those classes took the place of OT and were good for children with motor skill problems and once I had mastered them, I thoroughly enjoyed them. Another activity I struggled to learn as a child but then became addicted to was French Knitting – definitely good for fine motor coordination!

The thing with a craft is that you can always learn how to do one if you put your mind to it. I do have a creative mind but my creativity does not stretch to fine art. So as an outlet knitting, crochet, and sewing have been my go-to crafts. There is something very satisfying about creating something with your own hands and as long as there are clear instructions I seem to be able to manage to create something by carefully following the directions. As a young mother, I still had problems with dressmaking but got a friend to teach me then attended some classes and became quite proficient, and for years I made most of my and my daughters’ clothes. (I no longer sew and have given my sewing machine and over-locker to a young designer who really needed them for her craft. ) I still go through phases of knitting and crochet. 

I crocheted a set of placemats like this for my daughter

Now to the other craft. The Earl had a fishing craft for many years and loved being out at sea catching fish. He no longer has a craft of his own but he still likes to board his friends’ boats and always enjoys a short excursion out to sea. Longer fishing trips are no longer an option for him. Luckily living where we do the fishing spots are fairly close to the harbour and you need not go out for very long if you choose not to.

Because of his love of the sea, the kind of craft he loves to travel on is a cruise ship. At first, I was not so keen to take a long cruise on the deep wide ocean as visions of the Titanic Disaster danced in my head. But after a month-long cruise on the good ship, Costa Victoria in 2019, I was hooked! What an awesome way to travel. I am so pleased we did this before the pandemic prevented us from booking another one!

A magnificent craft – The Costa Victoria

As I said in my opening paragraph we are planning another trip, and yes it will be another cruise but not for as long as the Costa Victoria. The cruising bug has bitten our darling daughter and she has persuaded us to join a group of six on a nine-day cruise in the Mediterranean. Yes – we certainly are keen to board this craft although nothing has been booked as yet. We will of course also have to board an aircraft to get there and our plan is to start in the UK so we can visit friends and family there then after a few days, we will fly to Istanbul where the cruise begins and ends, and then fly home from there.

JusJoJan 24 – Writing – Sunday 14 January 2024

The JusJoJan prompt for today comes from Joanne Thank you Diane for this word as it is one very close to my heart,

When I was growing up and in primary school, handwriting was considered a very important skill and our teachers insisted upon correct pencil grip, correct letter formation, and above all neatness. This was in the days before children with difficulties were sent for occupational therapy, remedial tuition, and psychological counselling. While I was learning my letters, I now realise, I needed all three! 

First, we learned to print in the ball and stick fashion. In Standard One/Grade Three we started on cursive. By then I had mastered the difficult skill of printing and was really keen to get to cursive which I found a tad easier to learn. According to my very strict but excellent teacher, my handwriting was very neat. But it was also very slow! I spent so much time concentrating on neatness that speed fell by the wayside. Once I reached the higher grades speed became important so guess what -neatness fell by the wayside simply so that I could keep up! 

From then on my teachers despaired of ever getting me to write neatly and accurately. I could spell but I made ‘careless’ mistakes – and still do!  I had to make a choice, write neatly and win the teacher’s praise for pristine penmanship or get the work done in the required time and avoid being scolded for tardiness. Time won! These days children with learning issues are given extra time to complete – I had no such privilege. How I envied those children who managed to complete tasks with awesome handwriting and no errors.

I liked writing – not handwriting but writing and I still do. When it came to writing compositions I just needed so much more time so usually did not write quite as much as I would have liked to.

When I was teaching in the seventies and eighties, handwriting was still an important subject in the curriculum. Now that I was the teacher I was a little more sympathetic toward those who struggled with this skill. My training had prepared me how to help those with fine motor coordination problems and I never penalised a child for untidy work. Some of my colleagues were still strict about neatness but having had problems myself as a child I was more interested in what the child wrote rather than how he wrote it. 

However, I was strict about pencil grip and correct letter formation. In other words, I encouraged my learners to start the letter correctly, to start next to the margin, and to try to keep between the lines. The reason for this is that the physical act of writing is good for the brain. 

Learning to physically write is still important because writing uses more complex motor and cognitive skills than is required to use a keyboard. Knowing how to write also helps with reading fluency as writing activates the visual perception of letters. There are many other benefits to having good handwriting but I won’t bore my readers with those now.

I learned to type when I was in Standard 7/Grade 9 and it changed my life! It is the best thing I ever learned at school, besides reading, because although I did not need to type during my early career it was a skill I could use on a computer which from the nineties on became a huge part of both school admin and creating teaching aids. I welcomed the digital age with open arms as it made everything a thousand times better for me. Doing admin for school records was a nightmare – no mistakes were allowed at all – one mistake and you had to begin again! It took me five times longer than my more accurate colleagues. I was one of the first on my staff to welcome a computerised system while many of the older teachers were resistant to the changes!

Yes – I love technology and it is a great tool for those who struggle to physically write. Screens are being used as a learning tool in school. I used them myself and found them a tremendous aid as they capture the attention of children and enable you to do so much more in the classroom. But handwriting is still important and we must still teach children to read and write. 

The pencil will one day become obsolete as did stone tablets and quill pens. But it’s not time to throw the baby out with the bath water yet!

Just Jot It January and Stream of Consciousness 13 January 2024

Today Stream of Consciousness Saturday is combined with Just Jot It January and the prompt is Close-up or Close Up.

I enjoy taking photographs but I am really of the aim and shoot variety. Reasonable memory shots are usually the result of my efforts and I have an archive full of photographs from many years of recording just about anything since digital photography became a thing.

I received my first digital camera on my fiftieth birthday – twenty-one years ago. I guess it’s time my photography skills came of age! That little camera had a three times optical zoom and cost R7 000 if I remember correctly. At the time I owned a video camera which was my pride and joy but it was not digital. My camera did not have a video function so I still had to use both of them. 

My next digital camera came a few years later and I paid R 6 000 for a 12x optical zoom camera – Wow – was I thrilled with that. I could not believe that a camera so superior to my previous one cost R1000 less. And it had a video function so the video camera went into a junk cupboard and stayed there for many years before giving it away for nothing! 

But now to the point of the prompt – close-up. Well with my new digital camera, I discovered that close-ups were quite easy and great fun too. As technology improved I moved along with it by purchasing the newest in digital zoom cameras until at last I got one with a 65x optical zoom. My brand of choice was and still is Canon, and their PowerShot range is superb.  Each time I bought a new camera the price was less than the time before until the latest one.  Cameras now cost twice as much as what I paid before the one I have now – a Canon PowerShot SX70HS. I have to take great care of this one because it will cost too much to replace. My previous cameras have all been given to members of my family who coveted them!

Camera technology today is amazing. Who would have imagined twenty years ago that a phone would double as a camera? In fact, the cell phone is even more than that, and what a difference that has made to modern life!

Let me now close up this post with a few favourite close-up photographs. The Earl is in fact the best close-up photographer so I have also chosen from his folder too. He uses a Panasonic Lumex 60X with 60x optical zoom.

Giraffeclose-up by The Earl
Lion close-up by The Earl
Zebra close-up by me.

JusJoJan – Pastime Tuesday 9 January 2024

The prompt word for today’s JusJoJan is ‘Pastime“ and it comes from Di at pensitivity101

A pastime is something you do that is enjoyable and helps to pass the time pleasantly. This I guess is opposed to something we do that is necessary for earning a living, duty, or survival. We actually spend more time doing things we have to do rather than doing something for pleasure but that doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy those tasks that are so essential in our everyday lives. 

To live we have to eat and to eat somebody has to cook. Isn’t it strange that when you have to do something you tend to enjoy it less? When it is a chore that simply has to be done we tend to dislike it. Now that the pressure is off, cooking has become more of a pastime than a chore. Admittedly I am lucky enough to have a husband who also enjoys cooking and now that we’re retired we argue about who is going to have the pleasure of cooking the evening meal! 

“Don’t worry, Darling.” I’ll say, ”I’ll cook tonight.” 

“Oh no, you won’t. I’m sure it’s my turn and I really want to try this new recipe!” will come the reply.

Isn’t life tough!

Then on the other hand pastimes that gave pleasure no longer do because of the limitations of old age. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. One remembers enjoying a long hike up a mountain but despite the enthusiasm, keeping up with the younger members of the family is a challenge and not quite as enjoyable as ten years ago! Hubby still thinks he can go out ski-boat fishing, a lifetime passion but although he goes from time to time the recovery time afterward makes it less enjoyable.

The trick, now, is to find a pastime that is enjoyable and does not strain the old body. Or rather to still do those things from the past at a slower pace! 

These days my favourite pastimes are, learning Italian on Duo Lingo, blogging, reading, listening to podcasts, and gentle exercise like walking and yoga. I also like playing word and number games on my phone. Hubby says it’s a total waste of time but I believe such games keep the brain functioning! 

I find that the wonderful thing about being retired is that there is nothing that needs to be done urgently. There is no rush so everything one does whether it is an essential task or a hobby is a pleasure. Things I used to dislike doing when the pressure was on is no longer a hassle. I like cleaning my house. I like pottering in the garden – although I won’t do anything back-breaking – I have a gardener for that. I like going out to do the shopping in an unrushed manner. Thinking back to the days of having a full-time career, running a household, taking care of my husband and kids, and still finding time for socialising, exercise, and hobbies, I wonder how I coped. But of course I did and I loved my life. I certainly love it still and am grateful for those active, busy days but there’s no wish to go back as my relaxed lifestyle now is just as enjoyable.

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1.

The above verse is basically saying that everything is temporary and things are constantly changing, so we should therefore, move with the times, adapt and adjust to every situation, live one moment at a time, and choose to be happy doing what needs to be done as well as the chosen, amusing pastimes.

JusJoJan Gratitude Monday 8 January 2024

Today’s prompt for JusJoJan is Gratitude. Thank you Sadjie for this word.

It is so easy to go through life taking things for granted. It seems that the more fortunate we are the less grateful we are for what we have. I have so often heard people say, “I got to where I am by myself through sheer hard work.” And although this might be true it wouldn’t hurt to show some gratitude for the opportunities that presented themselves or the people who helped make things happen along the way. I don’t believe we can take credit for everything we have achieved or obtained in our lives. Of course, it is important to be self-reliant but I have yet to meet a happy person who has not shown some gratitude to others for helping them along their way.

I also believe it is very important to express gratitude to people who provide services for us. Are we grateful to our employees? Do we thank the petrol jockey for filling up our vehicles and washing our windscreens? Yes, they get paid for it but does it hurt to just say thank you? 

My greatest joy was when my grandson thanked me for the part I played in his life. I did not expect gratitude nor even thought about it but when he expressed it so eloquently in his own words it was better than receiving a diamond ring! 

In my experience showing gratitude to a shop assistant, a cashier, grumpy passport control guy makes all the difference to the service you will receive. While waiting in a queue to check in at a game reserve rest camp, I have seen people with long faces become irritated that they have to wait to be processed. This causes stress to the poor receptionists too. How much better to greet the overworked soul with a “Good Afternoon, Boy am I glad to be here in this beautiful park at last. I’ve looked forward to this all year.” Immediately you will get a smile back and cheerful service as they process you. The trick is to think of the other person first. What kind of day is he/she having. Of course, they should leave their problems at home but we’re all human. Let’s be kind to each other, treat each other with tolerance and thank those who serve us with a smile and friendly word. 

Gratitude is good for your health and your soul.